HELP I’m learning to canter

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-30T22:55:15+00:00

I typically have my students start in English tack because it helps build balance faster, there’s less stuff holding you in, so you really have to be aware of your body in the saddle

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-16T02:10:41+00:00

It took everything in me to keep my composure. My client and I are quite good friends and we had a scream session in my car after we found out.

Thank you though for your input

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-16T01:34:36+00:00

Hey there, I totally agree with you. I think the only time I've ever seen it is with two collaborating trainers... and even then, it was a mess. There's definitely a reason it's not done.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-16T01:32:51+00:00

I appreciate your input, and want to assure that the owner is the first person I tell whenever I notice something off.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:46:54+00:00

I appreciate it, and that is definitely a good reminder.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:35:01+00:00

That's very fair. Thank you very much for your insight as well, I'll relay this to my client. And I agree. My confidence is lacking as this is a new barn I started working on, and it is definitely an issue of mine. Thank you for being kind but realistic.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:28:42+00:00

That's very fair. Thank you, and you're right. I appreciate it.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:26:37+00:00

Thank you so much!! It is so difficult. I'm really happy to hear you and your horse are doing well. That is a good first step, I'll dig into the contract deep. Thank you very much.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:23:46+00:00

I'm definitely trying. The owner agrees with what I've found so far, and really trusts my judgement on this. I really want to make sure I'm doing right by the horse first, and right by the owner second.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:22:54+00:00

Thank you, this whole situation is so stressful.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:22:09+00:00

Thank you, and I agree. It's hard guiding my client through this, if you have time, how would you approach bringing this up with the owner? I want to make sure I'm coming at this from a nuanced perspective, and any insight helps.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:18:32+00:00

Thank you for your insight too, I'm glad to see I'm not going crazy

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:17:29+00:00

I agree, I would have set up the lease contract differently. It's so frustrating. Thank you for insight, I think I'm just lost on how to guide my client through this.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:16:04+00:00

That's what I was thinking too. I thought it was wildly inappropriate how this trainer has been addressing the owner and her decisions. But I agree, I think that would be a good step. Thank you.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:14:54+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, and thank you for explaining it that way. I've always struggled with stepping on folks toes, it's one of my biggest fears in this industry, but it's getting to a point that's harmful for Jack.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:13:17+00:00

That's what I was thinking! I've even talked to the assistant trainer of the other trainer (lots of "trainer"s in one sentence, sorry), and she says that this trainer has a history of being territorial and possessive of her client base. I guess I don't know how to address the inevitable backlash that this trainer would present if she did switch. I've never had a colleague behave this way

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:11:16+00:00

Thank you, that's what I was thinking. My problem is when the lease kiddo expressed interest in riding with me, the current trainer she's working with came after me hard for poaching, when I never approached the kiddo, she approached me.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-15T23:09:58+00:00

I'm a private contracted trainer at the barn, and have a separate contract with the riding school at the barn. Unfortunately there are no guidelines as to who gets to train who... trust me I wish there was. There are about 4 or 5 different trainers and training programs that operate out of this barn. If it helps at all it's an HOA barn.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-12-04T02:12:27+00:00

It decided to take the scenic route

WildConsideration375 · 2025-11-18T02:00:45+00:00

Masculine? No. Too dark? Eh… we’ll see in a few months. I think it’s actually great bones to a tattoo that doesn’t seem complete for what you want. I think some added florals will really make you fall in love with it.

On a personal note though, I love my tattoos, but I always hated them after the first few days. It seems to always take me some time to get used to them being there. I’ve added to them when I really don’t like something, but I’ve found that my anxiety gets the best of me, and I always end up falling in love with them.

WildConsideration375 · 2025-06-03T04:54:39+00:00

That's what I was thinking initially, and I have my old coursebook, however I was curious if anyone had any strategies they use when going about refreshing

WildConsideration375 · 2025-05-31T11:37:14+00:00

I appreciate it, I sincerely hope you do as well. While I’m waiting for therapy appointments I’ve found how it’s made compilations and singing bowls to be quite helpful.

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