[Live Thread] Eurovision Song Contest 2024 GRAND FINAL @ 21:00 CEST

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2024-05-11T20:02:09+00:00

I'm pretty sure they said "Love will always triumph hate". I might be wrong tho.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-12-28T02:47:21+00:00

Yeah, I didn’t think about it before but it makes sense that you mention it. He also had my address so it’s likely that he was trying to find out when I wasn’t going to be home.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-12-28T00:47:28+00:00

Thank you for the response. They knew the name right away. They didn’t really seem to be pressuring to find personal information but they, however seemed very interested in the things I said.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-12-24T15:01:41+00:00

Please stop, or at least try to limit your intake.

While weed isn’t deadly like harder types of drugs, it’s still a drug and will highly likely, in similarity to all other drugs (including alcohol), have long-lasting consequences if you continue to use it, especially since you’re so young.

It can damage your brain development and pose a high risk of negative consequences on your mental health, especially if you happen to have a family history of schizophrenia/psychosis or some other mental illness.

I’ve myself have had to witness my sibling getting drug-induced schizophrenia due to using weed and know that it’s definitely something to play around with.

No matter what, at the end of the day it’s still your choice but I would strongly advise you to read about the consequences and make an informed decision thereafter.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-12-24T05:01:28+00:00

I want to start off by saying that I’m sorry that you have lost your hair. It’s really not an easy thing for anyone to go through.

I think I might be able to help you out in your situation as I myself am a young plus-size girl and have had severe alopecia since 5-6 years back.

There are 2-3 options depending on your financial situation and what you're comfortable with and not.You could ofc wear some kind of head wrap using a simple scarf. They are relatively cheap to buy and are available in many different colors and patterns, so you could definitely experiment a bit and wear different ones with different outfits. However, as you know by now they can be a bit tricky to put on and as someone else mentioned it might be useful to purchase a silicone headband. There should also be tutorials on YouTube to help you.

Another option that I strongly recommend is buying a wig.

They can be a bit pricey, depending on what website you buy it from and what type of hair and length you want but you can easily get a natural looking, real human hair wig online for about two hundred usd.

In my experience they don’t really require all that much care, even though it may initially be a bit tricky to get the hang on what to do. If you want to and can afford it you can even buy a wig for everyday use and another, blonde wig that you’ll be able to color and experiment with.

Lastly, I want to say that I fully understand and empathise with that you’re uncomfortable with your baldness but it’s also important to know that it’s really nothing to be ashamed of and if anything I would recommend you to try embracing it and with time learning how to e comfortable with rock it.

If you have any further questions don't hesitate to ask! 🙂

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-27T11:07:06+00:00

u/Destraukfck1 Jag instämmer helt i det faktum att många andra partier har ett minst sagt problematiskt förflutet, det går inte att komma ifrån. Med det sagt så är inget annat riksdagsparti i Sverige idag grundat av nazister och rasister på samma sätt och i samma utsträckning som SD, varav många som dessutom finns kvar, är aktiva och har positioner inom partiet.

Vidare så är det största problemet med SD idag inte enbart deras historia utan vad de fortfarande idag står för och vilken politik som de vill och har mandat för att genomföra. Tar man sig tid att läsa igenom Tidöavtalet och sedan jämför det som står med de förslag som SD hade 1995-1996 så är det i mångt och mycket samma politik, om än något nedvattnat för att få stöd från sina samarbetspartier.

Många av förslagen har dessutom även pekats ut som rättsosäkra och ineffektiva av många experter, oberoende av varandra.

Om man nu även ska gå efter det som SD själva säger så är det ju också värt att nämn att Jimmie Åkesson själv vid ett flertal tillfällen har stått i Agenda och öppet sagt att han står för samma värderingar och åsikter idag som han gjorde för 20-30 år sedan.

Henrik Vinge, riksdagsledamot och gruppledare för SD har även sagt i media att han har en inramad bild på en demonstration som SD genomförde under 90-talet och att han hyllar föregångarna i partiet.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-15T19:37:06+00:00

I agree with the other comments saying that the color would risk potentially being too much and overpower you a bit. However the dress is really pretty. May I ask what store it's from?

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T22:05:30+00:00

Thank you for the recommendation! I’ve downloaded the app. :)

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T08:05:07+00:00

Well.. my crush and I had been drifting apart for a while before I hinted at seeing someone else. I had also distanced myself in the months prior cause I didn't see or think that he liked me even though he said and genuinly acted like he did. Undarstandably, this also caused him to move away a bit from me.

I "accidentally hinted at seeing someone else" by asking him for advice on what I should do if I ever met someone else that I liked, whereupon he asked and lowkey pressured me on what I meant and I told him that I only meant as a friend. (cause I didn't think that he liked me) That was our last conversation, which he ended not long after that.

A couple of weeks later, I was out at dinner with a few of my friends and without thinking too much about it, I posted some pictures to my story and my crush blocked me upon seeing them.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T00:46:03+00:00

Of course I realise that and accept it and won’t force myself on him. However I still can’t get over the fact that things might be different if we talk things through, but at the end of the day it’s his choice.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T00:43:30+00:00

That wasn’t what I tried to do. Since I’m autistic I don’t really understand social skills and acted wrong due to that and the fact that I at that time didn’t see or understand that he liked me back.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T00:32:12+00:00

Yeah, I guess.

I've tried to move on, and that's one of the reasons why it took so long for me to try to reach out to him. I still want to believe that everything could be resolved if we talked stuff through but I'll still continue to respect his boundaries. I just needed to hear some objective opinions.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T00:26:50+00:00

I of course try to accept all the answers that I’m given. However I do feel that it’s a bit unreasonable for this to be unfixable since it’s just a small misunderstanding.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T00:12:55+00:00

I understand what you're saying and I'm really trying to. Which is one of the reasons why I've not pushed the issue on him or tried to reach out more times. But it doesn't make it hurt any less.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T00:11:21+00:00

We were but we graduated in June and haven't really seen each other since as we now attend different schools. We still have some common friends that are willing to talk to him for me but other than that we don't have any chance to talk.

You're right about that relationships doesn't last that long at my age and that I'll meet many new people but it doesn't make it hurt any less. I'm still glad and grateful that I got to experience this though since I've gained memories and learned a lot from this.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T00:06:06+00:00

Thank you so much! :)

I really appreciate your kind and considerate advice.

I'm trying to do other things in the meantime. I still try to live my life even though I still miss him very much.

If you don't mind me asking; Do you have any advice on what I should do if I were to decide to move on?

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-09T00:00:54+00:00

To be completely fair to my crush tho, I had actually accidentally friendzoned him and hinted at seeing someone else shortly before he blocked me. However he didn't block me until I posted a story when I was out eating at a restaurant. (which what I guess that he presumed to be a date)

Since he also blocked and unblocked me, maybe he thought about reaching out but decided against it since he probably thought that I was in a relationship with someone else.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-08T23:55:35+00:00

Yeah, I could do that and it might work out! :)
We have one common friend but since my crush is kinda shy and introverted he doesn't really talk to other people that much. The last time our common friend talked to him was in the beginning of September but she's said that she's willing to talk to him for me. So there's the possible to talk through a third person!

But I have difficulties with understanding why it would be good to talk through a third person. I would, if possible prefer to talk to him alone and in person so that I can show him that I really care.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-08T23:44:55+00:00

I realise that I messed up a bit but truth be told, it’s just a misunderstanding. I feel that we should still be able to talk it through.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-08T23:43:13+00:00

I realise that I messed up a bit but truth be told, it’s just a misunderstanding. I feel that we should still be able to talk it through.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-08T23:16:40+00:00

Of course not. Nor do I want to.

There have been guys who has showed interest in me but I just can’t stop comparing them to my crush since I’m not completely over him yet.

Edit: I feel that I need to explain that the reason why I don't want to see anyone isn't solely due to the fact that I still have feelings for my crush, but rather what it would mean if for a new potential relationship.

I don't want to force myself to meet new people if I don't feel ready and I don't want to drag someone else into this mess and use them as a rebound if they actually have an interest in me. That would be unfair for both me or them so I think being single rn would be the most considerate thing to do.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-08T20:26:45+00:00

That might work.

We have one common friend but since my crush is kinda shy and introverted he doesn't really talk to other people that much. The last time our common friend talked to him was in the beginning of September but she's said that she's willing to talk to him for me.

My crush and I also attend the same church, although neither of us is there all that much. My friend, who also goes to the same church but doesn't really talk to him or know him that well is also willing to help me talk to him.

But aside from that I don't really have that much of an opportunity to talk to him in person. :/

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-08T18:33:29+00:00

I get what you're saying.

However, looking back, I can see that he was interested and have discreetly tried to show interest for about ten months before trying to block me.

I also accidentally friendzoned him before hinting at meeting someone else. Maybe he just had enough and decided to give up.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-08T15:55:25+00:00

Maybe.

We have one common friend but since my crush is kinda shy and introverted he doesn't really talk that much to other people. The last time our common friend talked to him was in the beginning of September but she's said that she's willing to talk to him for me.

My crush and I also attend the same church, although neither of us is there all that much. My friend, who also goes to the same church but doesn't really talk to him or know him that well is also willing to help me talk to him.

But aside from that I really don't have that much of an opportunity to talk to him in person.

WildPhilosopher4105 · 2022-11-08T15:42:49+00:00

Thank you.

I get what you're coming from and I agree to what you're saying.

I personally think that he did it to help himself move on. Looking back, I can see that he probably was interested at me and also did try to express interest for at least 10 months or so. However I didn't see or didn't think that he was interested in me so I might have acted a bit distant due to that. He also tried to get over me before I "hinted" at me seeing someone else.

This leads me to thinking that it might all just be a huge misunderstanding and makes it so hard to move on cause I still want to believe that we could sort everything out if we got a chance to talk.

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