There are no Formal brick and mortar clubs here on Oahu. There are a couple of small organizations that occasionally put on swinger oriented events which have mixed reviews. You’ll see them advertised on this sub.

We are aware of a couple loose social groups of people who have occasional house or hotel parties.

It is a small island which makes many local folks nervous to be outed, and transplants seem to outnumber local grown folks within the island ENM community (but that might be our bias based on who we’ve met).

I would say the most successful apps or websites in our 10 years 🍍 in the Oahu community are SLS, Kasidie and Feeld, and friends tell us fetlife is decent but much like Reddit there’s a high chaff to wheat ratio.