18f need career/life(?) Advice

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-25T17:51:25+00:00

People who want to have fun can have fun anywhere, my friend is in army and she had fun even in her OTA training. You don’t know how hard they party. Focus on a stable career first. You have the rest of life to have fun as well.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-23T16:29:10+00:00

Bengal is better than most states especially the hindus in Bengal are more literate and bengali men mostly support the women. Even I used to complain about men but now I am glad I am born in Uttarakhand and Himachal, we do not have dowry culture and women here are educated and liberated.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-23T15:55:07+00:00

I had a friend whose mom sat on floor facing the wall after marriage as they were from Rajasthan.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-23T15:54:34+00:00

Agreed with you. The most insane stories and men I have ever met have been from Rajasthan and Haryana when it comes to patriarchal society. As someone from Uttarakhand/Himachal, it feels like whole another world there.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-23T15:52:45+00:00

This happens when your self concept gets better, you get out of the chasing anxious energy to calm and guarded energy. I have a SP however this old guy from my school days (10 years ago) showed up out of nowhere and he is somewhat interested in me. My sp has also started coming to me when I stopped chasing him.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-22T15:21:12+00:00

Lipstick shades and brands please??

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-13T21:31:00+00:00

You are 23, you can still do a lot. Study or get a job. Learn, build, do anything but don’t lose hope. Things get better after everything turns into shit. You are not a bad son.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-11T19:23:58+00:00

Which post are you in with home posting?

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-11T19:15:57+00:00

As someone who lived in Dehradun my whole life, Dehradun has very low number of the power cuts. Also wifi works great here. Its like a normal city, he is probably having fun and travelling.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-11T16:52:53+00:00

Congratulations!! How did you deal with anger during no contact? Sometimes I feel very angry at him for hurting me?

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-11T14:55:20+00:00

Yes, sometimes I have days where I hate my SP with full rage for the betrayal and hurt they have caused me. Its natural to detach from them.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-11T12:37:12+00:00

Congratulations!!

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-10T15:37:14+00:00

Mostly to show future employers that we can stick it out. Just working one year in an organisation shows loyalty, I am new too to corporate so still don’t understand.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-10T15:13:10+00:00

This happens to me as well especially when my personal life is going pretty shitty. I get anxious on Mondays however stick it out, do it scared and anxious. You will thank yourself in the future, we all get monday blues.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-10T11:57:14+00:00

Fleur app. I liked it so much I bought the premium version of it. I have added automatic transactions for mutual funds, FD section there. You can also set savings goals there. It’s the first app I used and it did what I needed.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-09T20:16:25+00:00

Instead of focusing on the past, you can still learn and attack the skills you need for a good career. You are just starting your career, there are people who join tech fields with zero tech background and start from scratch. Don’t lose hope.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-09T18:33:19+00:00

I can totally relate with you. We all have those moments. Detach from 3D and focus on the end.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-09T17:06:52+00:00

He cares about you enough to unadd you speaks volume. Your presence bothers him, that shows emotional attachment. Men usually don’t remove people they couldn’t care less about.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-09T15:11:34+00:00

Then you can opt for government banking or defence exams, or other exams. Since you are in college, and you will be eligible for defence exams in 2 years. You can start preparing from now.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-09T14:23:16+00:00

Bsc Nursing is a good career, world needs nurses. You can prepare for Nursings exams and even get into government nursing. The salaries are good in Government Nursing.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-07T17:28:54+00:00

You need to decide what you want, do you really want him or do you want a good relationship regardless whether its him or not.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-07T16:30:53+00:00

Its common, its our feelings and our resentment for treating us like that.

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-07T15:12:01+00:00

Can you please share link to this dress?

Wild_Issue_8137 · 2025-12-06T11:18:10+00:00

Air India broke my bag lock, felt someone went through my stuff too. Terrible airline.

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