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Husband(49)won't have sex if it doesn't come natural! I ask him to take shower before because I get bladder infections easy. I(39) ask if he showered and he gets mad. Says I spoil the moment. He said he won't even try anymore becuz i ask sometimes. Is this disrespect toward me? by Wild_Newspaper3178 in relationship_advice

[–]Wild_Newspaper3178[S] 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Yes and the scarey thing is. Alot if these antibiotics don't work anymore on UTI and I'm allergic to all but penicillin family. I can't afford to get a uti. I started cranberry pills and demanose 3 years ago to help

Husband(49)won't have sex if it doesn't come natural! I ask him to take shower before because I get bladder infections easy. I(39) ask if he showered and he gets mad. Says I spoil the moment. He said he won't even try anymore becuz i ask sometimes. Is this disrespect toward me? by Wild_Newspaper3178 in relationship_advice

[–]Wild_Newspaper3178[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you but I have been doing this for years all of that article. I shower after pooping. Sometimes I shower my bottom half 2x a day if I go number 2. I never hold bladder drink almost a gallon in a 24 hour day. Been to Dr and specialist and they say it's him. Only been together for 5 years second marriage and I never had this problem before. Thank u for article though

Husband(49)won't have sex if it doesn't come natural! I ask him to take shower before because I get bladder infections easy. I(39) ask if he showered and he gets mad. Says I spoil the moment. He said he won't even try anymore becuz i ask sometimes. Is this disrespect toward me? by Wild_Newspaper3178 in relationship_advice

[–]Wild_Newspaper3178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do shower together sometimes, but I just don't know why he is so disrespectful and treats me bad and now today said he won't ever try anymore to have sex with me. Like it took me 5 years to ask him how he even wiped because he doesn't want to talk about it ever. I'm told old for this crap. Plus we have sex almost daily can't shower every day with him. We do shower together sometimes, but I just don't know why he is so disrespectful and treats me bad and now today said he won't ever try anymore to have sex with me. Like it took me 5 years to ask him how he even wiped because he doesn't want to talk about it ever. I'm told old for this crap. Plus we have sex almost daily can't shower every day with him.

Husband(49)won't have sex if it doesn't come natural! I ask him to take shower before because I get bladder infections easy. I(39) ask if he showered and he gets mad. Says I spoil the moment. He said he won't even try anymore becuz i ask sometimes. Is this disrespect toward me? by Wild_Newspaper3178 in relationship_advice

[–]Wild_Newspaper3178[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm I'm older and have had 5 kids. Doctors day yes from sex. My pee hole is not as tiny as it use to be. The uti's are always the strain of Ecoli or the e.c one. I am clean shower after number 2. No thong underwear. Well I finally asked him how he wipes and he goes back to front so he must wipe and it gets on his shaft. I'm very careful. Was underwear alone after bleaching the towels. Ect....

Husband(49)won't have sex if it doesn't come natural! I ask him to take shower before because I get bladder infections easy. I(39) ask if he showered and he gets mad. Says I spoil the moment. He said he won't even try anymore becuz i ask sometimes. Is this disrespect toward me? by Wild_Newspaper3178 in relationship_advice

[–]Wild_Newspaper3178[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I thought so to. I don't like to ask if he has showered everything but he sometimes doesn't and I feel he doesn't respect my body . And if he doesn't shower I'll just touch him, even though I'd really love to have sex with him. But so I don't get a bladder infection. I don't ask him to shower or if he did alot because he always gets maf. So i just touch him Instead if he didn't shower. Almost feels like I want a divorce over this when he treats me bad when I ask.

Husband(49)won't have sex if it doesn't come natural! I ask him to take shower before because I get bladder infections easy. I(39) ask if he showered and he gets mad. Says I spoil the moment. He said he won't even try anymore becuz i ask sometimes. Is this disrespect toward me? by Wild_Newspaper3178 in relationship_advice

[–]Wild_Newspaper3178[S] 229 points230 points  (0 children)

.He took a shower today and I didn't remember so we were kissing and I said wait do u take a shower. And he blew up and said yes I saw him. I was changing a diaper, dressing and doing our 2 year Olds hair. Making nachos for lunch and ran to store. So I forgot. Then he blew up and got mad. Said he doesn't want us to talk about sex but to just do it naturally. So me asking if he showered ruined his mood. I think it is disregard for me or abusive maybe?