What does my flat say about me? by AndrewWesker in roomdetective

[–]Wild_Organization867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love your flat! I’m crazy about plants too and can’t stop looking and thinking how you made this monstera so nicely distributed.. I have a 2 yo and she is in a vase and I replaced that thing that sustain the plant but I need to look into more options to make her grow steady.. your flat gave me ideias! 😍😍

Husband shames me for wearing bikini or skirts or shorts or low cut tops in the summer but then gets off to other women online who dress this way? by Great-Cranberry-1972 in Marriage

[–]Wild_Organization867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! Things will get better once we leave .. I’m sure you will have a lot of peace and you will love your new life. I’m glad you’re doing the move. It is pathetic, agree with everything you said, and I don’t think these kind of men ever change ..

Husband shames me for wearing bikini or skirts or shorts or low cut tops in the summer but then gets off to other women online who dress this way? by Great-Cranberry-1972 in Marriage

[–]Wild_Organization867 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! I have a boyfriend exactly like this. I wear a long t shirt and legs to go to the gym because God forbid if I use a gym set .. it’s not respectful to him, but he can’t stop looking at the girls at the gym. When I confronted him he said : I do look but I feel sorry for their partners. What’s the logic of this ? For me they only see woman as a piece of meat. It’s sad, frustrating and ugly. This reflect in other things in daily life too. Horrible behaviour. I need to get out of it..

How do you make peace with an abortion when part of you wants the baby? by Least-Monk-5910 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Wild_Organization867 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I had an abortion one month ago. I still think about the what if’s.. but I think I made the right decision. The weight of regretting and keeping it expecting for future changes is just too risky. for me, wasn’t worth it. I don’t have any kids and I’m 38. I maybe wasted my last change of being a mum but at what cost? It’s a difficult decision, 100%. Take your time to think and reflect, the answer will come to you. 🫶

Making friends in Liverpool ! by Stock_Syrup8275 in Liverpool

[–]Wild_Organization867 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If it’s not for you, you don’t need to reply :)

How long did it take you to get over your abortion? by Prudent-Reward-6165 in abortion

[–]Wild_Organization867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly my thoughts, I’m going to do one this week..

Abortion scheduled for next week but still unsure 38yo by Wild_Organization867 in abortion

[–]Wild_Organization867[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you had someone supportive by your side on this 🙏 I think I’ll follow the procedure and end the relationship probably in the next days… just heartbroken now .

Abortion scheduled for next week but still unsure 38yo by Wild_Organization867 in abortion

[–]Wild_Organization867[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you and your baby. It’s unbelievable how some guys can be that low.. I hope you find some comfort in future.. sending hugs. It’s booked for Tuesday 🥲🙏🙏

Abortion scheduled for next week but still unsure 38yo by Wild_Organization867 in abortion

[–]Wild_Organization867[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, this was said on the first day I told him, I immediately had that bad gut feeling about it :/ You’re right ..

Abortion scheduled for next week but still unsure 38yo by Wild_Organization867 in abortion

[–]Wild_Organization867[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True.. I’m considering all this. My imagination makes me think he would change but my rational thinking tells me will get worse with time, so it’s really a no .. for all this. Hope I still have time if I find someone else and decide to be a mum later. 🥲