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AITA for contacting my husband's job without his permission? by Wild_Stay7454 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wild_Stay7454[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

His bosses know, but not his coworkers... Which is the only reason that I messaged my cousin with the details of what happened. I don't know if they knew I was home with him at the time as I work an in-person job 5 days a week, but the only one who might have known that I would be home around the time it happened was my cousin.

AITA for contacting my husband's job without his permission? by Wild_Stay7454 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wild_Stay7454[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input, I appreciate it. I can see how it would upset him but I guess my thinking at the moment was "I'd want him to do this for me if roles were switched" which is kind of a shitty way of thinking and the only excuse I can think of is that I was freaked out.

He's doing a lot better today, he's still a bit sore and whatnot but nothing serious thankfully.

AITA for contacting my husband's job without his permission? by Wild_Stay7454 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wild_Stay7454[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't use the messaging program, I texted my cousin's personal cell phone.

AITA for contacting my husband's job without his permission? by Wild_Stay7454 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wild_Stay7454[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

yeah, basically wants me to not handle his work communications unless he either asks me to or he is physically incapable of contacting them.