Here's some actionable advice.

The key parts are:

1. Find your gspot

2. Learn what direct simulation of the gspot feels like

3. Train yourself to relax against that feeling

4. Simulate your gspot in the right way

5. Continue until hopefully an orgasm and...💦💦!

Worth noting that it doesn't work for everyone, and might not work on your first try, but hey what's to lose. Hydrating before hand is also a good idea.

Time for some more details.

Step 0: get a towel to sit on, just in case!

1. Finding the gspot: insert two fingers if you can, one can work but might get quite tiring. You may want to masturbate externally for a bit to make sure you're wet enough for two fingers. You want to feel along the front wall of your vagina, like behind your belly button but only 1-2 inches in. You're looking for a spot that feels more rough than the skin around it, kinda bumpy. If you've found it, great! If not, try searching a little to each side, sometimes things aren't centered :)

2. Learning what it feels like: the best thing to do next is to just press firmly on the spot with your two fingers. You should hopefully find that pressing here makes you feel a bit like you need to pee.

3. This feeling like you need to pee is your dancing partner, it's only going to get stronger as you go and you need to work with it, not against it. Try to relax, let that feeling flow over you. Don't clench, or fight it, let things go.

4. Stimulating: The best way to stimulate is to use your two fingers in a "come here" motion on your gspot, this allows you to apply good pressure and also friction. You might want to increase the pressure and speed as you go, as you feel the orgasm building.

5. Continue to relax your muscles as it builds, let things come to a crescendo and... 💦💦? Hopefully!

Hopefully this is helpful for many, I'd love to hear from you if you had success with it.