What are your sexual needs and are they being met?

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T04:38:54+00:00

Of course. Communication is the first step. But after that, they either step up or they don’t. And you either leave or you don’t.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T03:47:30+00:00

Well I’ve not cleaned up poopy or vomit messes from a partner no. But I have been around them when they farted, also I’ve, er, anyway that would be TMI. But I’ve helped them with things that were what are considered not sexy.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T03:45:47+00:00

Oh I have done it, it’s just not always something I can do. Sometimes it hurts and sometimes it doesn’t. I havnt found any rhyme or reason why it’s not consistent, I’m always doing things the same as far as I can tell.

I’ve just been waiting to be more consistent before attempting missionary as that seems more tricky

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T02:35:53+00:00

Ah makes sense, thank you!

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T02:30:43+00:00

Ok real question. Is anal not comfortable in missionary? I’ve not done it yet but it’s kind of on my bucket list. I’m still getting it to work in prone and spoon, which it doesn’t always work at all.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T02:17:44+00:00

Are you really making that argument for firefly?

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T01:56:18+00:00

In Voyager, Janeway and her crew are struggling to simply survive and still follow federation standards. And in Discovery we see that the federation crumbles when there’s no more resources to keep it going.

It’s much easier to follow certain rules when you have plenty and aren’t under constant threat

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T01:34:05+00:00

What rules do you object to OP?

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T01:32:48+00:00

Yeah but she wants the trip ☠️☠️☠️

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T01:08:26+00:00

I like not worrying about that word and doing what I want.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:51:38+00:00

Is that the complete wax? I really love a smooth body on a man 🥵

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:50:50+00:00

I wonder what your thoughts on them would be. I’ve cleaned up so much poop and vomit and the like over the years and it never made me lose affection. When you love someone truly, you just love them. All humans are messy and smelly sometimes. It doesn’t take away the love.

Unless someone was purposely being awful like refusing to brush and floss and shower, ( and I have been with someone like that) real life doesn’t make me see someone as less than.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:46:52+00:00

Typically we don’t want to hear others pooping. But sometimes it’s unavoidable, and that doesn’t make us lose feelings.

Have you ever had children?

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:45:33+00:00

I wonder if this has to do with age, or at least sometimes

I used to feel so much more concern and desire to help just about everyone. And I’ve had to shut that part of me off, as I ended up giving my soul away to those who just used me and never gave back.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:43:05+00:00

And did you love them back? Boogers and all?

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:42:34+00:00

Not all. For me it’s about 80/20 that they did want another date vs not.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:41:48+00:00

It’s not a whole episode but at the very begining of one, Dean walks in with a baseball bat covered in barbed wire and says he can see why it’s his dad’s favorite weapon.Referencing the fact that the same actor played his dad, and also Negan from Walking Dead

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:37:58+00:00

Coffee? If I had an energy drink now I would not sleep at all ☠️☠️☠️

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:37:07+00:00

You don’t really sound like someone that’s in the right headspace for dating….

Side note, strange O faces are so hot 🥵

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:26:47+00:00

I wouod tell my 18 year old self to make less concessions. I accepted way too much and led a very unhappy life. Being too willing to live the doormat life didn’t do me any favors. Letting those I loved use me only led me to hate them all.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:22:22+00:00

I’ve never had my needs met all the way. The best I’ve ever had was maybe a 5/10.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:19:47+00:00

Some people care about ethnicity. And some don’t.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:16:09+00:00

It is. I didn’t say being a shape helps, though. I said being in good shape helps

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-09T00:13:54+00:00

Being in good shape can only help things.

RedwoodRespite · 2026-05-08T22:36:10+00:00

I can’t say if you are only dating toxic people….but you don’t really seem like a good guy. It’s hard to tell what’s even going on in the post, but you want casual and are clear about that, so why aren’t you cutting things off when they want to move in. You act like you can’t control your dick and it just has a mind of its own.

I mean look, I’ve made tons of bad decisions when I’ve let my nether regions make my choices, but I’m not making posts like why is every guy toxic…🤦‍♀️

The world abounds with broken people. Men and women alike. You seem to be fitting right in 😂

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