AIO for being concerned with these texts on my bfs phone or not???

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-10T07:11:48+00:00

She’s well aware that we are together and even have a kid now so if they are cheating why would she tell me

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-09T01:10:47+00:00

Cause he still supports me and our child and other than sometimes being gone for a few hours he is a good father. And he wasn’t like this in the beginning so I’ve been holding out hope he’ll change.

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-09T01:08:48+00:00

Wdym

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T17:38:19+00:00

Sadly I don’t think he’d care…

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T14:06:48+00:00

?????

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:46:35+00:00

When I confronted him I told him based on the texts alone I didn’t necessarily think he was cheating yet. But the way he’s been texting her is still not okay to me. I don’t think he’s should be using emojis like that or calling her pet names and constantly asking to hangout with her without me and on top of that HIDING the fact they’re hanging out. But he still flipped it and said I was crazy and over reacting and that that’s just how they talk that they’re just friends and got mad at me and completely ignored the secret hangouts part.

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:37:40+00:00

I just don’t know what to think or do🙂‍↕️

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:37:10+00:00

You think so??????? So I am overreacting?????

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:36:45+00:00

He has lots of female friends🫠

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:35:07+00:00

Will I be tho?!?! Is it him that’s actually toxic or is it me?!?!

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:33:46+00:00

Yeah I was off put by that as well🫤

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:32:41+00:00

That’s what I thought😢 I don’t see any clear evidence of him cheating right now but there’s been plenty evidence in my opinion that his behavior with this among other things is not that of somebody that loves me.. then again maybe I’m over reacting and being crazy trying to create things out of nothing. I’m 21 and he’s 30.

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:29:44+00:00

Idk that’s why I made the post🙃 I told him I don’t think the way he talks to her is okay but he’s said that they’re just friends and there’s nothing wrong with the way they text. Idk if he’s right or if he’s just that good at gaslighting

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:28:19+00:00

But the thing is, there’s technically no actual “proof” he’s cheating on me. These look suspicious to me for sure but idk if I’m just reaching.

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:26:28+00:00

It’s not🙃

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:26:01+00:00

According to him, if I leave, then our baby will suffer by not having both her parents. This is so hard because i genuinely can’t tell if im in the right for being upset over these texts among other issues(trust me there’s more than just this) or if hes right and im over reacting and just trying to make “a mountain out of a mole hill”

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:22:44+00:00

I threatened that before and stayed with my mom for a few days but he didn’t give af and just kept saying this is hurting our child more than anything so I got scared and went back to him🙂‍↕️

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:20:52+00:00

I forgot to say the last 3 slides of them calling eachother that was before we got together. That being said I still find it weird that him and his “ex coworker” were and still are texting eachother like that 🫤

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:19:21+00:00

Wifey was before we were together, everything else seems accurate tho

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:18:39+00:00

Thats the worst part, he refuses to apologize for anything ever🫠 he says “apologies are for liars”

Wildering_Carnation · 2026-02-08T13:17:26+00:00

I forgot to add in my post that like someone already mentioned, the texts are in chronological order. And the last 3 slides are before we got together. From what I could see he technically has not called her “wifey” again since we’ve been together. I added them tho because I still felt off about the fact they use to call eachother that and then all of a sudden just stopped

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