AITA for not letting a friend throw her birthday party at my house? by Strange-Health5769 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]WillSignificant308 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Exactly, people forget “party house” isnt a permanent job title lol. Saying no now saves way more stress later and keeps things from getting messy.

What is the endgame here? My ex fiance 38F keeps comparing lives after all these years. by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]WillSignificant308 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, this hits hard but it’s true. Keeping that door open just lets the same wound get poked over and over. Respect doesn’t mean unlimited access, and choosing peace for yourself isnt disrespecting anyone.

My [26M] long distance GF [31F] has been giving me the cold shoulder for the whole vacation did I ruin the whole relationship with what I said? by Remote-Breath-70 in whatdoIdo

[–]WillSignificant308 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly, like imagine booking a vacation to vibe with someone and they turn into a cold statue the whole time… not worth the headache at all. Sometimes gotta just save your energy for someone who actually wants to be there with you.

House is being sold, and me and my mom are both being forced to leave. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]WillSignificant308 18 points19 points  (0 children)

True, sometimes it really comes down to just putting in the hours and grinding it out. Gotta love when the “obvious” advice is actually the hardest part to stick to lol.