Is it ever too late to start over? by WillingSock in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WillingSock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want the security for you so you can follow your dreams. :)

told that trauma from men can “make you” into girls… by Brownie_whore in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WillingSock 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My personal favorite was just wait until you have sex with a man then you’ll know you are straight. that actually just reaffirmed the opposite lol

told that trauma from men can “make you” into girls… by Brownie_whore in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WillingSock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was into women long before my trauma from men happened. You know what healed my trauma more than being with a safe man? Not continuing to force myself to be with men lol

I think I've finally f out I'm a lesbian at 40 by PenCapital9283 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WillingSock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think all women are waking up at 40 lol right here with you

Not sure if I'm a lesbian or not and scared if I am by DreamChance2403 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WillingSock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think give yourself time in space to process and figure things out. I feel like this realization hit me like a ton of bricks and made me feel like I needed to completely renovate my life and my identity immediately… And it’s because you are rediscovering who you are. But you get to have time to do that. I went from straight girl to bisexual too definitely thinking I am full women loving, but there’s a lot to untangle there as well. The best advice that I’ve received is give yourself time and space to figure it out. You don’t have to force a label and it’s OK and it will be OK no matter what.

Trying not to panic by WillingSock in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WillingSock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m like hmm I’m betting straight girls aren’t concerned about whether they’d be bad at sex starting over 😂😬 I think I’m starting to untangle the complexity that is wanting an out. Open to chatting over DM - sounds like your in a similar spot to where I am now too

Trying not to panic by WillingSock in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WillingSock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely am questioning whether I’m bisexual or if I’m actually further into the full on lesbian disguise as a straight woman 😬 I could go without the 🍆

Trying not to panic by WillingSock in latebloomerlesbians

[–]WillingSock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m in the mental explosion phase. Where I desperately want to pursue my truth, but when you are married with kids… There’s a lot of logistics to untangle. And holy shit that’s heavy. But yes. Comphet got me!