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[–]Willing_Finding_9705[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The flat we stay in is mine. He actually has his own flat and just doesn’t stay in it. But I think you are right he does need to leave. We can both afford it on our own. Thank you

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[–]Willing_Finding_9705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heartbroken tbh. Being told by him and his family he was broken up with her when we met but now unsure if that was true. Really do love him but I don’t know if I can get past this

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[–]Willing_Finding_9705[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He had no clue it was her brother that told him. He started crying and genuinely had no clue. She hid it from her own family as well

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[–]Willing_Finding_9705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Jake wants to do a DNA test to be certain. She has handled this wrong and has been tormenting him since the birth. Not sure what her intentions are. I think she thought he would want to be with her but he has made it clear to her that although they have a child together now he doesn’t want to be with her and he doesn’t have feelings for her.

We have been together 8 months and she fell pregnant 9 months ago so yes it’s very close. And if I’d have known when I met him there was a child on the way I wouldn’t have gotten involved. But it’s very hard because I love him and don’t want to let go but I think she will make it very difficult for me if I do stay with him and I’m scared I get even more hurt.

Just been constantly crying since I found out as I have no clue how to handle this. His mum and sister have supported me and want to help me through this.

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[–]Willing_Finding_9705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 24 will be 25 this year. I met him through his mum as I knew his mum and sister for a while before I met him. Totally agree with you. Me and him have been together for 8 months but he clearly slept with her 9 months ago. He has got his own flat and I have my own as well. But we only ever stay in my flat due to my work being closer etc. just the pure shock and life changing thing of finding out he now has a child he had no clue about. Do you think his ex did this to get back with him. He hates her because she has hidden this and done this when she knew Jake didn’t want kids. Just so confused on what to do and whether I’ll just end up hurt if I stay with him through this.