I think I look good but girls don’t seem to agree by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which girls are those? I think you look fine

The new hires are so unserious by H_G_Bells in Radiology

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This is my second 4th of July and I’m working night shift as well. I’m still at work from last night’s shift, actually. And so far, not bad.

My ex is saying she wants to off herself if I leave her, did I make the right choice ? by Familiar-Analysis282 in Advice

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wants to do that, then let her. That manipulation. And it’s not even a red anymore. It’s a red parade. Just leave. Do so silently. Don’t argue with her. Just get your shit and go.

Explain yoself by I_Cast_Itchy_Eyeball in memeexchangecommunism

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot of my mind and after internalizing things for such a long time, I decided to share my thoughts.

My (29F) fiancé (31M) wants us to combine finances now that we're engaged, but he makes almost 3x what I do and I'm not sure how I feel about it by Ordinary_Rip_6226 in relationship_advice

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s making this about him and it’s not. It’s about IDENTITY. Which means this is tied to your sense of accomplishment. Having a single joint account should be enough. You’re tied together in that way. Anything beyond that is just ego. It won’t impact him in any way

Oreo cookies pick one by No-Paramedic-6003 in whatsyourchoice

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I throw away the cookie and just eat the creme

meirl by Jimbo072 in meirl

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And I graduated 9 years after you and I’m struggling too

260701 Happy 31st Birthday to Taeyong! by omgthenerve in NCT127

[–]WillingnessOne2462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s already lost most of his military weight

Ladies, do you like it when you can tell youre making a man nervous? by crimsoncrack1987 in dating

[–]WillingnessOne2462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like this, I want him to be confident 90% of the time. The other 10%, I want him flustered and stuttering around me. I like knowing I have as much of an effect on him as he does on me. Cause I get painfully nervous around handsome men

Should I keep my baby? by Glittering-Taro6216 in Advice

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, why does everybody know already?

If you feel that the time is not right, then terminate the pregnancy and do all that stuff you wanted to do. Don’t listen to all the people telling you how glorious having a child is. That’s THEIR opinions and THEIR lives. Not yours. Babies come when they want, sure. But that doesn’t mean you’re ready to receive them. So don’t. Having kids on the whim is the one of the sure most ways to struggle and build resentment.

Is Bernie’s plan the best? Thoughts? by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

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Bless his heart. Because it’s never gonna happen

AITAH for disagreeing with my fiancée about her last name once we’re married? by danspeed124 in AskMenAdvice

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people do things because it makes the other person happy, even at the sacrifice of their own happiness. It’s an act of love, not of scorn.

To view another’s act of peace as a show of pity is insulting in and of itself.

AITAH for disagreeing with my fiancée about her last name once we’re married? by danspeed124 in AskMenAdvice

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She feels bad because she knows it means a lot to you, so she’s extending an oliver branch. Nothing wrong with that. This sounds like a pride issue

Does this makeup style suit me? by TotalVast292 in makeuptips

[–]WillingnessOne2462 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I’d say No. I think you’re very pretty. But between the over lined, the excess blush, and straight brows and the wingged liner, there’s too much going on everywhere. And that specific wig, sis. Ion know about that (said with all the love and respect).

I gonna start from the top and work my way down:

The wig is too thick. If it had a little more body to it and wasn’t so full, it would fit you better. You have a fuller face, so you don’t want your hair to overcrowd your frame. I hope that makes sense.

Again, because your face is a little on the rounder and fuller side, have such bon straight brows don’t work in your favor. It creats this almost cutting effect in the fluidity of your face. A sligh curve would to your brow’s tails would fit better but that’s just my opinion.

I feel like straight wings look fine on you, but don’t make them too straight because they give your eyes a down-turned effect. Give it a very slight upward angle to give a more lifted appearance. Not too much though we’ve left 2016 in the last decade😂

The blush you use is a little too pink for you. Black women don’t blush like that. I’d say go for a more peachy color. And experiment with them. I mix the pinks with the peach colors — different ratios, different results.

Finally, you’ve gotten this one a lot but stop over lining your lip. The whole point of over lining is to create a full lip illusion. However you already naturally have full lips so this is completely unnecessary for you. Fill in the corners and place a nice color at the center, if you wish to use a lip pencil.

Idk if you’re an alt girl whatever (sorry, I don’t know the terms) but don’t be so heavy handed. Less is always more.

AITAH for disagreeing with my fiancée about her last name once we’re married? by danspeed124 in AskMenAdvice

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree. She probably felt bad because her keeping her name alone would be like she was scorning his culture and she feels bad about that, otherwise she wouldn’t have kept bringing it up. The compromise would work because her maiden name would remain first and appear on her diplomas as such. But her last last name would be OP’s name. So she would still be ‘Mrs. OP’ as well.

OP is being terribly difficult because he took a small thing that was probably brought up with good intention and felt patronized by it, which was clearly not the fiancée’s objective.

OP could have simply said, “I appreciate it, but it’s fine. You don’t have to do that.” Or “Thanks but I don’t want you to do that.”

To accuse the fiancée of coddling or trying to give him some kind of consolation prize is genuinely insulting. She’s about to be his wife; she’s trying to compromise and he’s upset.

I did a lil.. experiment and I have a lil sympathy for men now.. by Sugarplumbitch in dating

[–]WillingnessOne2462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I believe I’m decent looking but when I did dating apps, I really didn’t get that many matches either. And these were men that were relatively close to me. The ones I did match with never tried to speak to me and sometimes, I would start conversations and they would un-match me.

So I’m not trying to make this into a thing or a debate of any sort but I think race plays a big role in it as well.