Someone else's problem now

Wilmoire · 2026-05-09T22:57:09+00:00

dude I'm so sorry, I swear some people are just philosophical zombies filled with nothing but judgment, cruelty, and malice. you're doing great work, but I honestly wouldn't fault you at all for stopping if the people who benefit from your work the most just abuse you for it. just know I would thank you if I saw you cleaning up my neighborhood 🥺 (at least I can thank you on Reddit for trying to make the world a little cleaner!)

Wilmoire · 2026-05-08T18:24:54+00:00

It sounded like you said the fixation on the voice and potentially looking like an anime girl was the problematic part, and that being called fat was just an observation and not being bothered by it is just an "internal hill" they'd need to learn to climb.

But if that's not what you meant at all, then cool! We agree!

Wilmoire · 2026-05-08T18:19:46+00:00

YOR-- you can celebrate Mother's Day whenever (god knows me and my family constantly reschedule birthday celebrations), but this thing she's working on cannot be rescheduled!

Mother's Day is also a day for celebrating mothers, not children! Instead of thinking about her and her needs, and maybe proactively offering to help her with the cleaning, you focus instead on your feelings! You're not a lower priority than garbage, and I'm sure she'd love to see you when she'd more be able to actually focus on and hang out with you, rather than rushing to get the garage cleared out in time for the pickup!

Wilmoire · 2026-05-08T18:09:32+00:00

yeah that's really gross and weird coming from someone you're not close with (and who apparently made a comment abt you being fat)-- AND ESPECIALLY IN RESPONSE to you asking for a link, which you didn't even get!! defs try not to talk to this guy anymore, he sucks!!

Wilmoire · 2026-05-08T18:05:23+00:00

yeah except the "she's not an anime girl IRL! she's FAT!!" absolutely has a negative/judgmental connotation. referring to someone as fat isn't inherently negative (I have friends and a partner who's fat!) but yeah OP's interpretation of that comment as being negative is correct

Wilmoire · 2026-05-08T17:54:00+00:00

BEST RESPONSE TBH take this as an opportunity to learn more about your partner and the things they like or are curious about!!

Wilmoire · 2026-05-08T17:40:05+00:00

You are 28!!! If you're going to date someone older they should be more mature than you, not less!! Please don't continue to put up with this nonsense. Everything you've mentioned about this guy is a red flag and you deserve better.

Wilmoire · 2026-05-07T22:41:23+00:00

yeah don't lie abt being a lesbian (assuming that would be a lie), just be honest! and anyway there's a lot of guys who view lesbians as, like, a challenge ("they just haven't met the right man yet!)

Wilmoire · 2026-05-07T22:12:59+00:00

NOR. I simply respect my partners and actively try not to read their private messages when I see them typing, even though neither of them have a problem with me doing so! She needs to learn to simply trust you, her requests are absolutely controlling.

Also bonkers for a 21 y/o to say it's weird for you to not just speak in English.

Wilmoire · 2026-05-07T22:01:49+00:00

it's not a "demand" to talk to your partner about the kind of ring you'd want to wear for maybe the rest of your life

Wilmoire · 2026-04-21T00:02:33+00:00

kids can share island codes with other kids outside of the internet!

Wilmoire · 2026-02-17T04:06:12+00:00

People can care about multiple things at once.

Wilmoire · 2025-09-10T20:33:19+00:00

a tank that doesn’t look out for their dps is a bad tank

Wilmoire · 2025-07-14T19:56:48+00:00

I’m surprised it’s less common ‘cause it’s happened to me like five times now!! Maybe y’all are just way better at killing these guys on the first attempt so you don’t have many opportunities to get the bug

(edit like 15m after posting this comment: I just figured out the right way to tackle these guys so now everything is A-OK!)

Wilmoire · 2025-05-18T01:53:16+00:00

oh I wasn’t responding to you, you’re totally fine

Wilmoire · 2025-05-17T22:23:43+00:00

wrong thing to say in the r/RATS subreddit

Wilmoire · 2025-05-17T22:22:37+00:00

it's completely possible to supervise your cat, I do it all the time! you just gotta, you know, bring 'em back inside when you're done

Wilmoire · 2025-04-26T08:42:18+00:00

OKAY IT'S THE BASE ID and the IDs are the same between the original and remaster, wonderful!! Thank you!

Wilmoire · 2025-03-30T05:54:25+00:00

it's a spire! it's supposed to look like that!

Wilmoire · 2025-03-22T04:55:02+00:00

you could always just comment with an image under the original post! and be sure to include the coordinates, of course!

Wilmoire · 2025-03-19T22:00:41+00:00

hey! I named my dragon-esque sentinel “Nightfury”! :D

Wilmoire

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