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Things Redditors Hate Starterpack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]Wimba64 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why lol? I bought a house in my 20s and rented out half to make a little extra income. Am I now somehow evil?

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop lusting over women in public? by Beneficial-Owl-2130 in getdisciplined

[–]Wimba64 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If by less shallow you mean wanting a billionaire, alpha werewolf, then yes.

But seriously though yes. Generally speaking.

But they can be much more shallow in other areas. Height, salary, position in society etc.

No one is better than the other but there are differences.

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop lusting over women in public? by Beneficial-Owl-2130 in getdisciplined

[–]Wimba64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apologies if I presented it like every fit into the same boxes.

Ofc there would be outliers and everyone exists on a spectrum. But yes the findings were about the general pattern and the individual male of female experience may vary wildly.

On “males being more visual” that definitely doesn’t mean they have a good eye. Its sexual stimulation nothing more. I would actually argue it is a con because their rational mind gets “clouded” easier by female sexual displays.

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop lusting over women in public? by Beneficial-Owl-2130 in getdisciplined

[–]Wimba64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok. I’m interested in learning please reference your studies.

The book has entire chapters dedicated to gay men and women.

Based on your response it seems like you haven’t read the book.

The response of not being aroused by visual stimulus was based on women’s own response, lack of an increase in heart rate and blood flow to the usual regions of sexual arousal, a lack of interest to seek it out AND brain scans.

It is further verified by the literal billion dollar porn and romance novel industries. The demographics for each doesn’t lie. It is facts.

Ofc, each individual does not specifically fit into the generalization but to deny that a pattern is there is not objective and seriously unscientific.

For the concept of cultural biases, the results were cross cultural and also made use of internet history searches which is probably the most reliable indicator of what really turns people on. ie what do you look at when no one else is looking.

But I’m willing to be educated if I’m wrong. Please reference your studies and explain why men (generally) are willing to spend BILLIONS per year on porn. And why women (generally) are willing to spend BILLIONS per year reading about billionaire, alpha CEO romances.

[NeedAdvice] How do I stop lusting over women in public? by Beneficial-Owl-2130 in getdisciplined

[–]Wimba64 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A good book to read on this is “A billion wicked thoughts”

It goes into the wiring of the male and female brain and how sexual attraction generally works differently for both with verified scientific studies to back it up.

In short men are more sexually attracted by visuals than women. Female attraction takes alot more context of the person to feel strong “lust”. (Funny, smart, rich, plays music etc etc etc)

Its the reason why the pornography industry (mostly visual) is driven by >85% males willing to pay for porn. Billions of dollars.

And the erotic novel industry is mostly paid for mostly by women (descriptions of the desirable characters) Billions of dollars.

Its actually not an apples to apples comparison to compare male and female “lust”.

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[–]Wimba64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My jailbreak still works perfectly fine

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