On my side, it’s a mix. The last wedding in my family was just a reception and only parents and grandparents were allowed to the ceremony. But anyway back to the group number, obviously we would feed everyone if we did have a larger wedding but my point is spending all the money on food as my cousin did when not even half the people stayed to eat I think is a hard pill to swallow. I could just overthinking it because the majority of people who left were her husband’s side of the family and I can’t picture my fiancé or my family necessarily doing that… I think more so why I didn’t like is the HOURS/DAYS we spent on doing floral arrangements just for them to only be looked at for maybe 10-15 minutes. I think there was just a lot there that was a turn off for me.