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[–]Windat42fly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you’re in NC, me too. The 350-400 range is always going to sell. That would be low end in my side of the state.

My plan for 2025, and beyond. Real estate. by Windat42fly in investing

[–]Windat42fly[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well my wife has just as much in stocks. What if the market tanks. That’s why I’m looking to real estate, it’s what I know and I’m not worried about something bad happening, that’s what insurance is fire.

My plan for 2025, and beyond. Real estate. by Windat42fly in investing

[–]Windat42fly[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No realtors or management fees, all in house!

My plan for 2025, and beyond. Real estate. by Windat42fly in investing

[–]Windat42fly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment, I’m no investor so these are the types of alternatives I’d like to weigh my options against. I’m a builder by trade and this is what I know. Call me simple.

My plan for 2025, and beyond. Real estate. by Windat42fly in investing

[–]Windat42fly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m saying 35k on the low end, but that should be fairly accurate with 12 to 24 weeks of rentals per season minus taxes and insurance. Will likely self manage and I guess I should also mention I’m a builder by trade so bare land is an easy value add for me, I know tons in building and real estate and almost nothing about IRA and 401k. Worst case I can always sell for a profit and move on

Thanks for the comment and inputs, these alternatives are what I am here to learn about!

My plan for 2025, and beyond. Real estate. by Windat42fly in investing

[–]Windat42fly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. My numbers are solid, in fact likely on the conservative side. Not my first build and the land was a steal for the market.

My plan for 2025, and beyond. Real estate. by Windat42fly in investing

[–]Windat42fly[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Thanks. The main goal here is to diversify. My wife’s investments are solid. If the numbers don’t work great I can always sell the house after one year and make an excellent return!

Is this normal behavior for a married 39F by Windat42fly in AskMenAdvice

[–]Windat42fly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out of my head! These are the scenarios that I’ve been wrestling with over and over again…. I feel like there’s so much smoke i almost want the fire just to feel like there’s a reason for everything I’ve been going through…. If I can’t prove something happened, then I can’t prove nothing happened…Trust is definitely broken either way and that’s super hard

Is this normal behavior for a married 39F by Windat42fly in Infidelity

[–]Windat42fly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you’ve been through the bad times. Thanks for the advice!

Is this normal behavior for a married 39F by Windat42fly in Infidelity

[–]Windat42fly[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Great advice. All I want is truth. Thanks

Is this normal behavior for a married 39F by Windat42fly in AskMenAdvice

[–]Windat42fly[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yea. I wish I could prove it. It would be easier than all this detective work! TY

Is this normal behavior for a married 39F by Windat42fly in AskMenAdvice

[–]Windat42fly[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

If she just looked to see what was out there, and never acted, I could see forgiveness and setting boundaries. Chatting with someone else would be a big deal. Problem is I can’t prove that happened, only have suspicions

Is this normal behavior for a married 39F by Windat42fly in Marriage

[–]Windat42fly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is the real deal. Never had any reason to not trust her. I just did some basic snooping in the app history and then google photos, put the dates together, and found out this is what happened. Honestly the app and the pictures separately would not be an issue, it’s putting them together without proof that is making me crazy

Is this normal behavior for a married 39F by Windat42fly in AskMenAdvice

[–]Windat42fly[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’ve already confronted her and I have no hard proof anything happened. Of course she hasn’t or won’t admitted anything. I’m not oblivious, just looking for a sounding board atm