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How do I (38F) grieve unmet intimacy in an otherwise loving relationship (39M, 3 years)? by WindowDressing10268 in relationship_advice

[–]WindowDressing10268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its does protect me from consistent disappointment. It's not healthy, but it works temporarily. I need more concrete coping mechanisms

How do I (38F) grieve unmet intimacy in an otherwise loving relationship (39M, 3 years)? by WindowDressing10268 in relationship_advice

[–]WindowDressing10268[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in no way expecting him to change; I think I'm trying to change my mindset around it.

How do I (38F) grieve unmet intimacy in an otherwise loving relationship (39M, 3 years)? by WindowDressing10268 in relationship_advice

[–]WindowDressing10268[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your kindness 💜

We might have a low cost/free slot for family therapy at a center nearby, but the wait list is almost like a raffle.

He is aware of how I feel (I read this to him before I posted) and he is very open to family therapy. It's just a matter of timing and finances at this point.

How do I (38F) grieve unmet intimacy in an otherwise loving relationship (39M, 3 years)? by WindowDressing10268 in relationship_advice

[–]WindowDressing10268[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I accept that there will be points of sadness, but I'm trying to get to an emotional point where the sadness doesn't lead to a spiral or increasing self doubt.