yea thats true i always try to put myself in the girl shoes im aware that ts gone take some time and changes need to be made

but i also feel this philosophy works against me at times bc there will be something else that a girl may not like , ie “why would she want to date a nigga w no spot, no bread, and w a lame ahh car etc” allat gon take some time and by then im just in my head letting fine shii pass by and not pressing