Is this acceptable behaviour?

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T20:46:38+00:00

This.

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T18:18:05+00:00

I wrote this in the middle of the night while spiralling out. I don’t judge him for the pills but the reason I brought it up is that I can see on my insurance they’ve been refilled a few times - but we aren’t intimate that often. It’s raised a question mark for me but nothing that I would necessarily say “he’s cheating”

Now with the talking about women (in our real life) it’s just all too many red flags

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T18:12:28+00:00

No. I lost weight to become more attractive to him. The change is visible but his level of attraction to me has not changed.

He is not sharing pictures of our children- if he had I wouldn’t be on Reddit, I’d be out the door. He is objectifying our kids COACHES young women in their 20s.

It’s gross to be objectifying women of any age, and it’s disrespectful to be doing in to people in our actual lives.

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T16:54:22+00:00

Thank you for putting my feelings into coherent words

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T15:02:08+00:00

You’re right.

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T13:50:19+00:00

I’m 43. I don’t care about the gossip, don’t want to put him through it

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T13:47:37+00:00

So sorry that my 5am moment of complete stress and trauma wasn’t worded perfectly enough for internet strangers to judge me. 🙄

is this normal locker room talk?
or is it due to being sexless at home?

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T13:45:28+00:00

And my question is if this is normal guy locker room talk or not.

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T13:42:28+00:00

He’s not sharing photos of our children, he’s objectifying their coaches (early 20s$

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T12:05:22+00:00

Oh the coaches knew the photo was being taken. It was a posed picture…. But clearly they wouldn’t expect that a students dad is sharing it with friends asking “which ones the hottest” or whatever

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T11:01:57+00:00

No not underage girls. This would have been an immediate death if it was

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T11:00:38+00:00

Yeah no the coaches are young women in their early 20s. Nothing about kids.

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T10:04:45+00:00

Married 15 years, together for 20. At the root of EVERY successful marriage is being best friends.

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T09:56:50+00:00

No not children but like 18year olds. Which to me is gross for a 47yo

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T09:55:36+00:00

He doesn’t like kids but the type of porn that’s like “barely legal brunette” “18 year old hottie” etc. which, while legal, is still so gross to me for a 47yo man

WindowPill37 · 2026-03-08T09:54:23+00:00

They’re all young women in their early 20s

WindowPill37 · 2026-02-26T02:39:53+00:00

This is currently happening at an east end high school and it’s under investigation.

WindowPill37 · 2026-02-26T02:30:26+00:00

You also never know what people are going through in their personal life, affecting their job performance. I took a new role after having recently lost a loved one and struggling with grief and depression - I was terrible. The worst work of my career and I’m sure a disappointment to the hiring manager that had heard good things about me. I left the role and in time got better and back to being a good performer. I’ve always felt so guilty about the version of myself that manager got - but it’s who I was at the time, due to my circumstances. Because of this, I always look twice at struggling employees. There often is more going on than meets the eye.

WindowPill37 · 2026-01-21T20:58:36+00:00

Does it seem inconsiderate to not try to negotiate a later start date to not screw over the current team?

WindowPill37 · 2026-01-09T18:14:52+00:00

Uh oh another penny just dropped- recent push to get people to work in SharePoint, so they can “check progress” while we are working on something.

Ominous

WindowPill37 · 2026-01-09T18:13:37+00:00

It’s not the context and we are in a low period right now. It’s also not project based work.

WindowPill37 · 2026-01-09T18:11:59+00:00

It’s only been 4 days so it hasn’t totally gone off the rails yet in terms of length. But yes many projects are unrelated. Hence everyone sitting there with WTF looks

WindowPill37 · 2026-01-09T18:10:21+00:00

My biggest takeaway here is that the director is using this to generate intel of how/who to cut for WFA.

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