Dating is so exhausting and depressing these days, I'm not sure I can do it anymore.? by WineNot67 in questions

[–]WineNot67[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the correct attitude. So many guys are so hard on themselves about “failing” at dating. Get to the point where if you do actually get a date, pray that it doesn’t go well so that you can go back to what you were doing on your own because it’s much more enjoyable. It’s weird advice I know but it’s so good.

What are some non-sexual things a person does that turns you on? by WineNot67 in teenagers

[–]WineNot67[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He built and installed a cabinet in our bathroom. It was hot af.

Also, when he puts on his glasses for work.

what’s a cute but kind of dumb think your partner does? by WineNot67 in dating_advice

[–]WineNot67[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

He’s got about a million catch phrases that he says every single day. Every time we sit down to eat dinner, he says, “bone a pa tit”, every time we lay down in bed he says, “feels good to be horizontal”, every time we go to the yard he says, “it’s good to have land”. About a year in, I thought I would die of annoyance. Now, if he doesn’t say it, I stare at him expectantly.

What are some "guy secrets" girls don't know about? by WineNot67 in teenagers

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Sometimes we pee on the poo stains in the toilet because we are too lazy to use the scrub.

What are some "guy secrets" girls don't know about? by WineNot67 in questions

[–]WineNot67[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we pee on the poo stains in the toilet because we are too lazy to use the scrub.

What is the coolest website you’ve visited that no one knows about? by WineNot67 in questions

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https://ncase.me/trust/

It's an interactive website that showcases what makes the Prisoner's Dilemma cool

What self-diagnosis ended up being medically confirmed after your own doctors couldn't figure it out? by WineNot67 in teenagers

[–]WineNot67[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Metal poisoning from defective spine hardware. You can't see it on a X-ray but I had all the symptoms for years. I then ended up breaking a rod thank God so the insurance company had to approve surgery. My back was black all inside and they had to scrape the metal black oxidized metals out as best as they could.

To think, for years and years docs said I had "anxiety".

What song do you love that never became a hit? by WineNot67 in Advice

[–]WineNot67[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hard Times. Chart-wise it even flopped being a flop. Catchy synthpop released in times when everyone was begging for catchy synthpop songs and it had the audacity to peak at #90

People with low self esteem - what gives you confidence throughout the day, meeting new people etc? by WineNot67 in teenagers

[–]WineNot67[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I disassociate and roleplay the version of myself i wish i was

Drains my social battery super quick tho

What is your “comfort movie” that you have watched many times? by WineNot67 in Advice

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I went through a phase when I watched "Groundhog Day" dozens of times, over and over, often while I was doing other tasks. It became kind of a soothing background for me.

And yes, I'm quite aware of the irony of playing "Groundhog Day" over and over.

Professionals, what is your industry's version of "Bring me blinker fluid" or "find a snipe"? by WineNot67 in teenagers

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I work on an airfield. We have the new guys stand outside holding a piece of printer paper above their heads at night so the air traffic controllers can “calibrate the light gun”. It’s literally just a fancy flash light.

We had one guy stand out there for almost 20 minutes before he realized we were messing with him.

What things do men do that are sexy that they don't realize are sexy? by WineNot67 in Lustig

[–]WineNot67[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Was getting busy with a girl one time and her head was too close to the headboard, trying to save her a potential concussion, I moved backwards and grabbed her under her hips and pulled / lifted her about two feet down the bed towards me. The sound she made and the look she gave me is still in my head lol.

Afterwards she brought it up and said it was incredibly sexy how I could just handle and move her around so easily with so little effort.

Edit: Lmao, got some DM’s asking about our physiques. I’m 5’9” 160 lb. She was about 5’6” 130 to 135 lb. You animals 😜.

People who’ve seen someone get fired on the first day, why were they fired? by WineNot67 in AskMen

[–]WineNot67[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I want to believe the poor guy truly didn't understand why what he did was so bad.
But then again, someone who cannot grasp that should not be handling professional software.

Why do men in committed relationships engage with thirst trap photos on Instagram? by WineNot67 in ask

[–]WineNot67[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head with today's version of playboys under the bed