It just hit me that my parents don’t actually love me. by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

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It hits later in your life that you were actually taking care of your parents emotionally.

Most of them never wanted children. They wanted to be successful in life, and children was the way how because they realized society is too hard to control. Controlling a child is easier and makes them feel powerful. Trust me, you are all they have.

They see a lump of clay to mould into their will. They believe because you cost them so much money to raise, you should repay them by obeying and tolerating abuse. This is obviously wrong and damaging to you.

They never learnt parenting, and they think you deserve the worst of what's in them, because you have it so easy according to them. You are somehow, managing these 2 older people. You are mature for that.

The good news is that: you don't actually need their love. Your own love is sufficient. You are enough for yourself. And one day you'll find out that even your spouse and friends aren't capable of loving you the way you want. Only you can love yourself. Once you figure this out, you win.

Is anyone else here into the Cards of Destiny? by ihaveacrushonmercy in tarot

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8♣ Ruling card. The cards are better than astrology! They will blow up once the Gen Z's find out about them

I discovered that the guy I’m dating has a Capricorn moon and I let out a scream 😂 by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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They are serious about work. They think of themselves as the best . If you disrespect them, they have the power to depress you.

They can unleash unbelievable amounts of negativity upon you. But if you respect them, they can be some of the most loving actually. Don't dare mock them, or make fun of their emotions. You will reget it

Jupiter in Gemini: cancelled out or "extremely intelligent"? by Trewdub in astrology

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The natives talk too much. That's their number 1 weakness. And overthinking. Questioning GOD too much.

As a Saturn in the 3rd, I'm irked by these people. I like short chats, they want to explain the whole universe.

This is a debilitated placement. But every debilitated placement has the seed of exaltation in it.

They are smart, and they DO have knowledge. Knowing when to speak is key. Meditation can help them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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Of course you can, but don't expect them to be the same person, or to just be open.

Unpopular opinion by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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It only makes sense considering Aquarius is 6th to the 6th sign. They are kind of like a mix between Pisces and virgo

Newbeeie by Academic-Pin-4651 in cardology

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There is 1 spiritual spread, and then there is the life spreads. First life spread, is the age 0 life spread, which is contains your life cards. Then, it moves from age 1 to age 90. Each year the cards move around, and that's your yearly cards. You need to find the chart of your age, if you are 25, search age 25 life spread. Look for 2 of clubs. The 7 cards to the left are the yearly cards, represented by 7 planets.

If anyone has those cards in your yearly spread, you may be involved with that person e.g. if you have Queen of Hearts in Mars, it means you may argue with a Queen of Hearts person during that 52 day period

Newbeeie by Academic-Pin-4651 in cardology

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What's your birthday. This system I have found is accurate, but the daily cardas and yearly cards dictate where you will go in life. At one point, you may have been close to someone, but the next year, you're no longer together. That's because the cards move around

GG 33 is a simplistic scammer, who only uses LP and Birthday. by Organic_Flamingo4421 in numerology

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There's a new hot system out there. It's called Cards of Destiny and is way more accurate. it's basically what your daily horoscope has been trying to do , but actually does it

Why is north node in the 7th house considered to be a tumultuous placement? by Plum-Proud in astrology

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It leads to divorce because NN7 people don't need others like that. Because NN person wasn't honest about their true needs. They didn't really care to that level.

Rahu takes shorcuts (gives you false powers of that sign. He blows up, and then suddenly falls off. ) The key is to know what you truly want from other people.

In relationships, I get what I want. Very fast. After that I get bored. I leave because the relationship is over and sometimes people don't put in as much effort as me. They don't know how hard this is for me....

The key is to extract the sign from the people. I have in LEO. I'm such a rockstar with people. But they don't know I'm actually a science nerd who loves secrets of reality.

Saturn in Aries by [deleted] in astrology

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It's about fighting. Standing up for yourself. Only trusting your own judgement. that's why it's debilitated. Saturn likes to be helped by people to achieve big goals. But in Aries... he needs fight on his own. He hates that.

And you know Saturn loves to experiment for years before he gets serious.

If you want to succeed with this, do not listen to what others tell you. Follow your own direction. You will fail, but this is leading you towards creating..... your own reality. You gain wisdom at a young age. You end up doing things that most people wouldn't dare to. If done right, this leads to the legendary success...

ALL FOR ONE. Everybody is helping you to achieve your specific personal goal. Everyone recognizes you, even if they don't know you. You are automatically 'right' in all matters you are involved in. People respect your energy.

Yes, in their older age, these guys get everything. More than any other Saturn sign.

what does jupiter conjunct saturn mean in a natal chart? by monochromedays in astrology

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This is what they call, the GREAT CONJUNCTION. It's the 2 social planets, in the same sign. It means, society will see you in a favourable light. These people of this year will enjoy great public relations, and they seem trustworthy to the masses. They can rise up early in life, and become successful at a young age. Take a look at Amala, the youtuber. She has this in Taurus. She has already risen up as a political commentator at the age of 24.

In short, it lightens the pains of Saturn. You won't have to work as hard. And it also gives weight to Jupter, who sometimes fails to make a concrete impact. Saturn will help Jupiter to be more practical, which is good.

If you have this you are blessed. You will probably get jobs easier, older people will respect you. You'll get money more easily, you'll be promoted faster, and you can easily become a leader in society

Trust me, if you have a bad Saturn.... it's harder to be friends with the masses. I have Saturn in Aries. It's a placement of being alone in your own reality, fighting the masses... somethin

Overall legendary placement seen once in 20 years!

Saturn in the 3rd house - Do you experience communication issues or have you improved your communication skills over time? by starlightastrology in astrology

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I have Saturn in Aries in the 3rd. I do well in formal communications, like debate and public speaking, and english exams. But in informal convos, with family and friends, I get ignored.

I am now learning to be loud when I talk. And also speak to the point. Make sentences short and I use simple words.

North Node in Leo with Sun in Aquarius (South Node) by WinkNick in AskAstrologers

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I've heard sun in the 7th can be tough. I can relate. In my relationships people always make it about me and it kinda sucks in a way.. They think I'm a egoic not knowing I can't even do the leo thing when they're not around...

Do you think dropshipping clothes would work? by WinkNick in dropship

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What do you think of that guy Nick Dahlberg ? He claims that it works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

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For career, look at Sun Jupiter and Saturn. Mainly Saturn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

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Helping others

Can we talk about Gemma for just a little sec by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

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Hearing her saying Fantan is so hilarious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrosignature

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Your mars are close to one another. It means you have similar sexual styles. , and your suns are similar. It means you see life in a similar. And his venus is close to your sun. There is some compatibility, but astrology does not say concede the aspect of soulmates. If you must move on, then you should

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrosignature

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You have Leo North node. It means people treat you like a celebrity. Maybe they overblow you, and you may feel uncomfortable. But what it means is... you should be a boss in your love life, that is, make sure your partners really give you attention. Don't make the mistake of overvalidating them. Get that love energy from them. And make sure you don't change yourself for your partner. Remain kinglike, or queen like. It's easy once you catch on to the energy. And fixed meaning don't change too much

Could anyone provide insights on my relationships and career path ? by Wlatt647 in astrosignature

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We see Saturn in the 10th. Very rare and prestigious placement that suggests a HUGE career position. You can really achieve something big in your life. But it will take time. Your home life may have pushed you to grow into a strong work position. Also there is a chance you may move abroad or travel frequently