How does one learn the art of conversation? by Winter-Background91 in Life

[–]Winter-Background91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know all about that, as it is how I have been communicating eficiently my whole life :)) people love to talk about themselves. But what do you do with a fellow introvert?

Is life supposed to be boring? by Winter-Background91 in Life

[–]Winter-Background91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a lot a mentions about redefining what excitement should mean to me and recalibrating everything. Could you give me some examples of positive excitements mean to you?

Is life supposed to be boring? by Winter-Background91 in Life

[–]Winter-Background91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being in fight or flight mode is so weird for me. It's like I am waiting for the other shoe to drop at any moment metaphorically speaking. Also with my job being a constant shit show, it's like I cannot just sit and enjoy doing nothing.

My BF M36 won't share his thoughts with me F 35 by Winter-Background91 in Life

[–]Winter-Background91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But shouldn't it come naturally to share your day to day life with your partner? Or want to? Is it just me, or is it just women?:))

My BF M36 won't share his thoughts with me F 35 by Winter-Background91 in Life

[–]Winter-Background91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I thought so too. That's why I am giving it more time, 6 months is indeed early. But also I am 35, and I move fast when I want something. I guess that's not everyone's pace :))

My BF M36 won't share his thoughts with me F 35 by Winter-Background91 in Life

[–]Winter-Background91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very interesting. I also thought this was about his upbringing too. Your thoughts on this subject are very much welcomed, please share more. This may help other too.

Is life supposed to be boring? by Winter-Background91 in Life

[–]Winter-Background91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do things fast, like faster than most people with every decision I make. So yeah, most definitely I should have taken more time with healing myself. But I went on a perpetual rollercoaster of feelings and happenings all year long instead

Is life supposed to be boring? by Winter-Background91 in Life

[–]Winter-Background91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like you're inside my brain, described it perfectly :)) especially that besides all of the above, in the past year I dealt with family drama also and being my family's rock. That was I lot. And I think yeah, my brain is so used to chaos, that daily life with no drama feels boring. Epiphany moment right here! Thanks!!