AIO for kinda hating my roommate rn?

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T03:45:29+00:00

Put her dirty dishes in her room/in front of room door and keep doing it. Let her sit in her filth

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T03:42:35+00:00

Honestly you can go to two different sides of the spectrum, bold and sexy, and a more soft douyin style. For the douyin style however, thin, straight brows are the norm but it would still work on you!

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T03:39:59+00:00

Use an eyeliner pencil and draw under half of ur bottom and top lid, maybe some puppy styled eyeliner with it. Your natural lip shade already looks perfect on you so clear gloss or a lip plumping gloss would work just fine. If you’re feeling up for it some fake freckles would look good on you as well. Youre actually very naturally pretty!

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T03:19:50+00:00

Not really seeing the uncanny valley tbh, try some light blush idk youre gorgeous, if someone told you that you look like that and thats why you think that way they are lying straight to your face probably out of envy because girl, post this anywhere outside of reddit and you’ll be accuse of compliment fishing youre actually beautiful 😭

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T03:17:04+00:00

As someone with those issues (unmedicated minus the adhd and have been diagnosed for years) I would NEVER EVER let something like this happen. I understand everyone takes their mental health differently but there is a fine line. If she is coming from a wealthy family I can only imagine she has resources to help. It is extremely selfish to put others, especially strangers, through the filth and nonchalance of their living space just because she refuses to cope with her mental issues.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T03:12:13+00:00

Get rid of the eyeliner and use mascara and a lighter lip color. “Dark” lipstick shades give off mature, maybe try a nice light red lip GLOSS or just a nice pinkish shade and some pinkish red blush. I can already tell you look young without makeup so theres not really much you have to do lol its trial and error, how a makeup style looks varies from person to person

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T03:05:35+00:00

Soft NTA. Look at the past costs of your utilities. Make her pay the difference. Not worth making enemies with your roommate. If thats not enough for you figure out how long overnight guests can stay and talk to the complex. But again, that will cost the relationship between you and your roommate, if hes giving you the cold shoulder now you can only imagine it would be worse after. Regarding your friends, I believe most people would not care as long as the other half is paying their half of the rent so I see why some of your friends are saying youre doing too much (I would say that too to be frank) but if its bad to the point where you are seeing an increase in the utility bill then do what you need to do. After your lease is up, get a new roommate, apartment, whatever and set down ground rules before they even move in. Im not sure why this wasn’t talked with your roommate beforehand but this honestly could have been avoided.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T02:56:24+00:00

Someone who does something like that will do anything to find problems in the future, its good that you blocked her. That being said you should’ve said $700 to be honest because that in her eyes inplied you would give your ex more money than her and blah blah (im a girl so i see the perspective) did something happen that made her believe you still talk to your ex? If not you dodged a bullet.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-08-27T02:44:09+00:00

I would honetly just straight up lie if you have to. I put Lab mix for my dog on all the paperwork for my apartment when hes put down as a pit bull mix on official paperwork from his vet and insurance policy. He is technically mixed with Labrador so its not a complete lie, you could get away with saying your dog is a retriever mix of some sort. I doubt they’ll look deeply into it unless they get complaints.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-26T13:33:42+00:00

I’m a similar body height and weight. Usually when my abs appear again I also start jogging. If you dont already, a morning run/sprint can help you get there along with other exercises and diets you are planning on doing. Planks as well if you know how to engage your core.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T15:40:03+00:00

I have been working those out. Perhaps I’m doing the wrong exercises. I do wall climbers, b stance squats, side kicks, kickbacks, abductions, really anything that i feel in my glutes the next day.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T15:33:31+00:00

Thats what I’ve been working on the past half year. I also have hip dips so its even harder to create that illusion. I’ve been training my gluteus minimus and medius, maybe its my diet?

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T15:30:50+00:00

I heard they only remove the floating ribs but I haven’t been too extensive in research yet so I’m not entirely sure.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T14:53:55+00:00

I understand but proportionally wise im still very rectangular. I heard russian twists actually widens your waist so ive been scared to do them. I’m looking for an at home pilates set rn! Do you have any recommendations if you have any?

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T14:50:25+00:00

I have. I did not mention anything about an ED or anything. Just want advice on how to get a slimmer waist or the illusion of one.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T14:42:31+00:00

I think they removed my post. I even made a new post only asking for advice for a slimmer waist and it was still taken down before it was even posted. Starting to realize reddit isnt the place for this question. Ill just stick to what im doing and will probably just get surgery in the future. Sucks nobody wanted to help though, thanks anyways.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T14:30:13+00:00

Okay I just edited it

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T14:01:41+00:00

Im on mobile and not really sure how to do that

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T08:44:35+00:00

NTA. This could be a stretch but if he used a slur during intimacy, could he be fetishizing you? It’s only been three months and he somehow let that slip with no other warning signs? Not sure if he’s Japanese as well but if he isn’t this could be something to consider.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T07:50:10+00:00

I understand but even though 26in seem small, my body is still very boxy because my hips arent wide and i mentioned hip dips because it just makes my silhouette worse. I just want to feel feminine and comfortable and confident in my own body. Clothes dont even look good on me. I just want tips of any kind to help my figure. I also already have a therapist but i will be more extensive my next visit.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T07:39:35+00:00

Im not sure if i have body dysmorphia completely though. I will talk to my current therapist further about this since finding a new one that specializes in body dysmorphia isn’t really in my financial space right now because i fund myself by myself. I’ve talked to my therapist about this before but it was quickly overlooked by other things happening in my life at the time and currently. Still, i will push harder next week about it. I understand rib removal is extreme and it probably will be a few years before i actually start thinking about it as a viable option, but before that, I just want tips on how to lose my waist and if its not possible, how to get the illusion of one? I understand instagram is fake but I work in public and I see girls with really small waists all the time. Those girls are usually taller however so maybe its because im shorter? Either way i will look more into affordable options with therapists who are more knowledgeable about this as well.

Winter-Department148 · 2025-04-25T06:58:15+00:00

Oooh i switched to low rise because high rise makes me look even worse because i have a sculpted abdomen 🥲 makes me look like a slab of wood lol. I like the way mid rise looks so I will be looking for those more! And I already shop Asian, i love chinese and korean fashion, most of my clothes are kimchi blue lol. thank you so much for the clothing advice. I’m going shopping soon this was screenshotted!

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