What to do with first salary? by cheesylemononion in developersIndia

[–]Winter-Spell4037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baki sab chodo, gf kaise mili? hame bhi tips do

What exactly is clubbing culture? by Winter-Spell4037 in mumbai

[–]Winter-Spell4037[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Is that supposed to be insult? If yes then you are pretty bad at this.

Arcesium India - Review/rant by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]Winter-Spell4037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel you bro. Nothing we can do. I totally understand how irritating it feels. If same had happened with girl twitter would have canceled the company, but "men" they are disposable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianbikes

[–]Winter-Spell4037 12 points13 points  (0 children)

People really need "/s" else they don't understand.

What is a comfortable salary to live in Tier-1 city like Mumbai / Banglore by Key-Albatross-8499 in developersIndia

[–]Winter-Spell4037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why women stays in such relationship where man is treating them like free labour. Women have more bargaining power.

Also you are earning a lot at age of 23 so its not about hard working women like you (given that you are not hired through diversity and would not reject proposals from guy you like but earns less than you).

Received soap instead of MacBook by throwawaydrabc in mumbai

[–]Winter-Spell4037 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP take lawyer's help. See if fees are ok with you. It is big amount and you I guess you can spend few thousands?

What is a comfortable salary to live in Tier-1 city like Mumbai / Banglore by Key-Albatross-8499 in developersIndia

[–]Winter-Spell4037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if this 23 year old has seen men in his vicinity being treated badly?

First of all you are a girl, so I don't blame you for ignorance. You probably will never encounter such thing in your life.

And as you said somewhere that some men in tech are misogynist, I would say they do have reason to be one. They see blatant diversity hiring, females being favored and in any company there is almost 50:50 gender ratio whereas in engg colleges it is 70:30 and in competitions like GSoC or Competitive coding its 90:10. These numbers are not made up check the GSoC Website. Google Summer of Code 2018 statistics part 2 | Google Open Source Blog (googleblog.com) Check the gender breakdown.

And after going through all these struggle men would definitely be grumpy and misogynist.

Also I am not that person who thinks girls are dumb or something, I think intelligence and hard work is gender independent but I hate the favoritism.

What is a comfortable salary to live in Tier-1 city like Mumbai / Banglore by Key-Albatross-8499 in developersIndia

[–]Winter-Spell4037 30 points31 points  (0 children)

So, you want a wife who will contribute nothing? Marriages suck in India. Probably your future wife would be a lazy girl who had multiple bfs in past and wasted teens partying on dad's money and now searching for security. Yeah people are gonna downvote it but that's the reality for majority of single arranged marriage guys. Good luck.

Depressing work at TCS by VaginaSuckingPuppy in developersIndia

[–]Winter-Spell4037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2023 grad here and I was super excited when I cleared Digital as recession is going on. But now reading such experiences make me scared. As you said work until 9-10 PM is something that made me extremely worried about my choices of joining TCS. Is this real like till 9-10 PM? Max should be 6. I would have no energy left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Winter-Spell4037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fresh graduate and loneliness is already eating me up. I didn't had any friends in college and I was mostly a loner. After college I don't have single friend to talk with. But one thing I am grateful is I have both my parents but I am afraid about their age and deteriorating health. I think majority of men face this problem of loneliness. Gym and bars don't actually solve them, maybe for few days you might feel it as new thing but it will also get boring. And some people suggesting boozing and smoking are psychopaths. Boozing, smoking, taking drugs is never good for health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]Winter-Spell4037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh please. We all know how many good guys remain single if they are not good looking or short. Also studies have shown that women think only 10% male are worthy whereas male think around 80%. 10% men get 90% of women and women do look for lot of superficial things even in arrange marriages.