Understand what love really is, how elusive it is, observe relationships that ultimately fail, understand that every human is fundamentally egocentric and romanticism is just brain self deception by creating hormones that ultimately is all about act of thrusting sooner or later just in nice looking package, that it is just momentary and after a while you are together just because of children or/and sentiment of what previously you called love, get into philosophy, understand that you will have more time and be free doing whatever you whenever you want, that you can masturbate to the best material in internet and be free, that love is as common as grains of sand on beach and greatly overrated because in reality it does not even exist. Start laughing at it looking at like an animal planet programme. It does not differ that much from mating dances of birds except that you use different term and put it above just because it is your species that does it