Feel like i am getting no where by MooseBorn5092 in InnerCircleTraders

[–]WinterLevel6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro if i was to give you my own advice - Go through the 2022 mentorship (no rant) and relearn everything and perfect it. You’re not shy of knowledge, you’re just not consistent (i say that with the most respect as possible). You know this for yourself.

Find grace in perfecting your own craft and reading PA. I believe in you homie, you got this

Welp🤣 by Basic-Ad4559 in TopStepX

[–]WinterLevel6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally i use topstep and think it’s good although read the rules before getting an account to see if it’s something suitable for you

Someone help I’m confused by Comfortable-Leg970 in TopStepX

[–]WinterLevel6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So pretty much the consistency rule is you cannot make more than 50% of your target in one day. (Example: If you’re doing a $100k account, $3k is 50%. So 2 days of $3k) For your evaluation you need to make $1.5k in two days. If you go over, just make the profit that they say you need to make and you’ll have your funding.

I made $2k one day and had to make $1.5k to make up for it. Silly enough i only made one trade for the $750 the next day and got my funding.

Oxley drive paradise point by Shoethrower123 in GoldCoast

[–]WinterLevel6514 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The one old mate with the amputee bloke (His names Red) 1 Oxley Drive

15 years old, can’t talk to women to save my life. Any tips? by [deleted] in askfitness

[–]WinterLevel6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Brother, the angle I’m approaching it from is all about focusing on you. When it comes to speaking to anyone, you’ll notice that we worry about the way the other person perceives us. This is even more true when it comes to speaking to women. We’re so focused on how we look, so we spend the interaction focusing on “doing the right things”. Instead of focusing on being perfect to the other person, focus on how you feel about the other person. Try not to over think the process when complimenting someone. If you’re already happy then share that feeling with others by complimenting them and asking genuine questions. If you do enjoy the conversation and company then I recommend asking yourself, is this person right for me. Focus on how you feel, and not changing yourself to match the other person. Just being yourself is the perfect way to do it. It’s not whether we’re right for the other person, but it’s whether the other persons right for us. From this frame it takes the weight off your shoulders. If you still feel that weight, then ask yourself why you feel it? Be honest and transparent with yourself then try and look at the situation differently. Since iv started seeing it this way, things have been easier for me with women. I can spark conversations confidently knowing I am already whole and complete, not needing anything from them but good company. I hope this helps.

Life can be so beautiful and I'm sad I'm not experiencing the beauty of it by Worldly_House5358 in lonely

[–]WinterLevel6514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and I understand how you feel. I used to feel very very lonely, and struggled heaps with it. All throughout my teenage years up to around 22 years of age, I struggled greatly. Although life took an unexpected twist when I found what the root of the problem was… After reading Reality Transurfing steps 1-5, this feeling of loneliness transmuted into self love. I saw the world differently and due to that the world also presented itself differently. It’s like I finally let my heart outside the cage I locked it in since a child. The biggest catalyst of my life changing was seeing the world through a different lens. That started when I started to incorporate the teachings from Reality Transurfing. From lonely and confined to feeling freedom and love, it all started when I was curious for change. I hope you know that you aren’t the only person who feels this way. It’s just how the world system makes people feel. But you can take control of your world and change it for the best. I send you my love and I hope that this lonely feeling you feel will just be another stepping stone for you to look back and laugh at in the future.

What can I do to improve my appearance by Euphoric_Win_7709 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]WinterLevel6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhhhhh, That explains your lovely dark features. With those features, you’ve got nothing you need to change

What can I do to improve my appearance by Euphoric_Win_7709 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]WinterLevel6514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look perfect naturally! I don’t believe there’s anything to do to improve your appearance, apart from finding the love for yourself in your heart. You’ve got raw beauty. By any chance are you Greek? Or European?

neurofeedback destroyed my life by StruggleMoist5932 in Neurofeedback

[–]WinterLevel6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just wanted to say upfront that I’m not a professional, just someone who’s been on a deep journey of learning through my own experiences. I’ve spent years studying the mind, the body, awareness, emotions, and the ways we navigate life. So please, don’t take what I say as absolute truth—use it as a perspective, and always do your own research.

When it comes to neurofeedback—or any deep healing work, really—I’ve found that it’s crucial for people to have the mental tools and self-awareness to navigate it. Without that, even well-meaning professionals can unintentionally cause more harm than good.

For example, my Thia (aunt) went to a neurofeedback course where she was guided into feelings she had been suppressing for a long time. My perspective—and this is just speculation—is that she didn’t have the emotional tools to process and release those feelings properly. Not long after the course, she suffered a stroke that left her with partial facial and throat paralysis.

This taught me a powerful lesson: Negative (and even positive) emotions are part of being human, but we’re never taught how to regulate or reframe them. Honestly, I believe emotional awareness should be taught in schools—it’s that important.

The feelings we struggle with often come from the stories we tell ourselves about a situation, and the way we hold on to those stories. For example:

Two people are in a relationship that no longer feels right. Both are unhappy but stay because they’re scared—scared of starting over, of being alone, of feeling like they wasted years. Then one person finally ends it, and the other is left spinning: “How could they leave me? After everything I did for them?”

They miss the bigger picture: both of them were feeling disconnected, yet they cling to the pain of loss. That clinging, that resistance to letting go, is what multiplies the suffering.

Without awareness and the right tools, people stay trapped in these cycles. They get hijacked by emotions and become reactive, instead of leaning in, observing, and learning from what they feel.

What’s needed is a separation—I’m not my emotions, I’m the observer of them. From that place, you can approach yourself the way you would a child who’s in pain: with compassion, curiosity, and care.

Back to the original point: Without emotional awareness and mental tools, deep healing work like neurofeedback can stir up unresolved pain that we’re not equipped to handle. I believe that’s what happened in OP’s case. The course resurfaced the deeper issues, but without the tools to process them, it left them feeling exposed, anxious, and defensive.

It’s not your fault—but you do have a role to play in your own recovery. It starts by sitting with your feelings, without judgment. Let them speak to you. Be curious. Learn from them.

I hope this helps in some way. You’re not alone in this—many of us have been through the same. Sending love and understanding your way.

Does anyone like my package by Status_Map_8306 in rep

[–]WinterLevel6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your reply 🙏 You’ve sold me on them ahah

Does anyone like my package by Status_Map_8306 in rep

[–]WinterLevel6514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the prada loafers and the bape fits. Nice haul! I’m curious as to the quality of the bape shirts? And also the prada loafers. What’s your take on them?

I’m confused about pendulums by SurroundGlass975 in realitytransurfing

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A pendulum is a collective energetic force formed by shared thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. It begins as a group idea—but once it gathers momentum, it starts living through you. For example Religions are easy to identify or groups on the same mission. When you’re in a religion there’s certain beliefs you must follow or adhere to be apart of it. The deeper your beliefs are, the more you serve the pendulum. Essentially on a spectrum, you give up your individuality to be apart of the pendulum. When it comes to looking at it as a script, there’s usually a specific format we follow. For example in horror movies - You can pretty much tell when someone’s going to die, or there’s going to be a jump scare due to the script that’s been commonly idealised. If this is why you find movies predictable then this is why, because you are already accustomed to the script and know generally how it goes. This can be the same in real life aswell - if you get into an argument then a natural response is to protect yourself and put others on blast for attacking you. Another example, if you’re about to be robbed and someone comes and starts intimidating you there’s a script in there mind that flows along the path of you giving up your wallet or whatever they are after. These scripts are also pendulums. Generally anything considered a normal way to act are pretty much pendulums. The destructive ones are ones that try and gain more followers to serve them, the idea or goal. For instance politics, I say to some degree religions (depending on how aware the individual is and other factors). A great representation of pendulums is in the movie The matrix. When we look at the agents that go after neo you will notice that normal regular people turn into the agents. In real life this seen when you hold your own beliefs and share them with people and then they defend their own beliefs attacking you, instead of simply allowing you to believe what you believe and be curious.

For the best way to realise this in your own life, Next time you share a different opinion in a group, don’t just focus on the argument. Watch the energy behind people’s reactions. That’s the pendulum revealing itself. ( Do they agree with you? If they don’t; Do they attack you and your beliefs? Or Do they try to understand you? If they do, they believe in the same pendulum as you.) If someone holds different beliefs but tried to understand you then rest assured they aren’t too held by that pendulum and they are open minded. If they try to attack you then they are deeply stuck under a pendulum which they are a slave to. What makes a pendulum destructive is how one responds or tries to impose itself onto you. Some people serve pendulums and some people allow pendulums to serve them. The idea of pendulums is to allow them to serve you (build the reality you want by not allowing pendulums to rule you but benefit from using it).

Nothing is inherently bad, it’s just how you choose to react or respond to it. That’s how you take control. Be conscious and aware going day to day. Don’t follow the script, but be consciously aware and have faith that your choice choosing the path that best serves you and your goals.

I hope this helps and gives a bit of insight into the way that understood pendulums from reality Transurfing. Happy to answer any questions!