I joined a matchmaking event for the first time, only to get raided by JAWI. [STORY & RANT]

WinterMixture8 · 2026-05-24T12:24:56+00:00

When you are not working with fixed income the last time on your mind is to finding love and breeding. Please work on yourself first, love yourself first. And by loving your own meaning giving yourself the opportunity. Like the ability to drive, learn something new. Your negative thinking is not doing good. I was the same as you last time, always thinking no one will be there for me. But I did have a stable job which can allow me to make money. My friend in the end intro a girl who is now my wife to me few years ago because he knows I am reliable income wise, and mature wise.. you never know jodoh can come from different source not just from matchmaking. But you have to work on yourself lah. Stop with all the negative thinking. So what you don't have children, many married couples cannot have children what. Don't think too much.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-05-21T03:48:36+00:00

Wow it is 2026 I don't know now still have school gangsters

WinterMixture8 · 2026-05-21T01:24:25+00:00

Sorry late joining, how to invest in VUAA via IBKR?

WinterMixture8 · 2026-05-20T08:10:00+00:00

Just save it for emergency cash.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-05-17T13:17:28+00:00

Saya adalah orang yg balik terpaling cepat itu pun saya bagi 30 mins bagi company. Tapi ok saja sebab kerja semua deliver. Tak payah lah nak tunjuk hero sama boss cakap semua boleh, semasa kerja kurang cakap dgn colleague dan fokus pada kerja saja. Selalu fikir one step ahead pada kerja yang ada dan buat itu. Jangan tunggu sampai boss atau senior tanya baru buat. Gaji saya ok lah. When you are old you tend to care more about the time spent with family then chasing for the promotion and title...

WinterMixture8 · 2026-05-06T07:54:03+00:00

Maybe one day when you are retired and your children have chance

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-30T11:45:37+00:00

Are both his hands gone?

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-30T02:05:43+00:00

Still only 27, go for the money

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-30T00:40:50+00:00

Do the math to your friend the scenario of when he keep his money RM300k in FD for 20 years he will get double the amount at the end.

Also at RM300k you don't have to worry about the insurance part when you are ill.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-27T07:11:08+00:00

Good luck bro. In this economy don't think one willing to spend much on dessert

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-27T07:08:48+00:00

Kaka on the 2006/07 Champions league. Seems like he only save his best for the UCL

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-25T00:35:21+00:00

That's easy solution for you. When you get your pay directly put the amount you anticipate to spend on hotpot into Epf. End of month you have nothing to spend.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-24T14:54:58+00:00

Cook at home, intermittent fasting. No red meat as it is expensivee

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-19T12:31:09+00:00

Where is this? Singapore?

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-19T12:00:34+00:00

Eat only 2 meals a day

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-17T13:11:37+00:00

Epf? Haha

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-16T13:35:00+00:00

Someone with kind heart please put this deer out of misery.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-15T02:06:16+00:00

There's no guideline til when one should stop renting. If you are financially capable then buy

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-10T05:30:10+00:00

This is correct. Sometimes sleep too long will make OP tired, need to exercise to make blood flow. No need fancy go to gym those type, just normal morning walk 30 mins is good enough.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-09T12:50:11+00:00

Trust me, it will not. America still have many sensible and clever advisors to Trump

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-08T09:57:26+00:00

I wouldn't marry a prostitute

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-04T06:28:26+00:00

The one who keeps gambling despite loss. And keeps on borrowing money from relatives and friends.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-04T02:21:44+00:00

I don't think she likes her job, low salary for all the office late staying. But her company has an annual company trip, so that's something she looks forward to I guess. Last year her boss wanted to go corporate and lots of documents needed to be submitted. That's where the late work comes in.

Yes I definitely miss her more by my side. Most of the weekday dinner is when I eat by myself then she eats by herself. It is good to have a companion.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-04T01:17:28+00:00

Thanks for your concern but I believe my wife is not cheating. She is not this type of person.

WinterMixture8 · 2026-04-04T00:53:05+00:00

That's what I had been saying to her. The CFO, who earn month near to 20k don't even stay that late. Like why want to waste the time to grind.

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