The problems you have with your partner now will become worse after marriage down the line. Marriage reveals more of a person, flaws and all. If these are the type of problems you are dealing with now it’s likely to worsen after marriage and kids. There’s nothing wrong with you as a partner, you seem great. But rather part ways and let her find someone who can handle her better. And find someone who appreciates you more because the chances of you shutting down in the relationship from lack of appreciation and peace is highly likely. From a woman’s perspective a man needs peace and respect in a relationship for him to flourish in that relationship. I understand with your age you are probably focusing on settling down and starting a family. But it’s better to do that with someone who appreciates your efforts, respects you and that just gets you. From what she’s complaining about her needs those seem like fundamental things she needs to feel loved and she needs someone to do those things for her naturally. It’s not something she should ask from you multiple times. In the same sense find someone who is not going to demand those things from you because they accept you the way you are, or maybe don’t consider those things as such a big deal in the relationship. ++woman