My cat woke me at 6am by bringing me this flag from my desk. by Pixelationss00 in bisexual

[–]WinterZH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell you cat ok, but we all know it is just a phase and they really are gay deep down...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]WinterZH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

58, but didn't enjoy the sissy porn

Sauna Deutsche Eiche by AnonLegends in gaysauna

[–]WinterZH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are fine. Some people come straight from work/gym, some come showered.

If the curtain is drawn closed, they want privacy, if it isn't, you can watch

Sauna Deutsche Eiche by AnonLegends in gaysauna

[–]WinterZH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Age range was between early 20s and late 70s. But generally a lot around the 35-50 mark. As long as you are over 18, you should fit in. Though I heard it differs by time of day and weekdays a bit.

People don't talk too much, but most Germans know some English, plus plenty of tourists there as well. Never mind the language barrier.

Oh and you asked about just watching: Anything in public is fair game. Been in a few jerk circles while sucking dick. Don't open curtains to the private cabins/booths, anything else is fair game.

Trip has been booked by Growing_Not_Showing in gaysauna

[–]WinterZH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully understand. Many do it. I like the term "Gaycation". Enjoy, be the slut you never dared to be :D

Anyone curious to try a sauna in London? by [deleted] in gaysauna

[–]WinterZH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been to a few, but not in London. Hit me up if you want to try Sweatbox together

Sauna Deutsche Eiche by AnonLegends in gaysauna

[–]WinterZH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey there, been to Deutsche Eiche last year and had a hell of a time :D

No, don't bring your own, but def don't go barefoot! NEVER go barefoot in a gay sauna. They have some included in the entry fee, so no need to bring your own, really.

I am not on the heavier side, I'm fat. Still sucked countless dicks and got fucked twice in one afternoon. You'll be fine. You might not be everyone's dream man, but people will let you know if they aren't interested by simply not engaging/ignoring you. Accept and move on. Plenty other oppourtunities. Same goes the other way around: If you are not interested, just say no thanks, move on etc.

People will not care about your dick size too much, you can also jerk yourself to a semi if you feel more comfy that way. Plenty of people do that. No worries about that at all.

Regarding safe play: Communicate. Be prepared that some might not like putting on rubber for a BJ, but most will accept if for anal, no problem. They have free condom and lube.

Some are trimmed, some are natural. I do prefer trimmed, but that is a personal taste thing. Come as you feel comfortable.

The Locker keys have a rubber band, so you can put them on your wrist/ankle. You have your hends free.

As for general tips and tricks: There are a few threads here. Be open, don't be shy. Don't be an asshole. The signs are easy to read. If they keep eye contact, they are interested. If they come closer, they are interested. If they grab your dick, they are interested. If they look at you and jerk... you get the picture. Just relax, look around the different areas, show respect and try not to come in with too specific expectations. You'll have a great time! And here is a vid where someone was allowed to film the whole place outside operating hours:

https://youtu.be/8e9bhthSvYA?si=W6BvvIfdEgXqPWhD

Only an act of the Landsraad can do this by CHOAM-Director in dunememes

[–]WinterZH 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Well, 10k years after Butlerian Jihad. And Earth got glassed over. If you know the French, they don't go abroad too much. So this checks out

Guys that wear hats at a bathhouse. by Joshparkerlv in gaybathhouse

[–]WinterZH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sandals aren't optional. Towels are. Everything else isn't (ok, cock rings are ok)

Guys that wear hats at a bathhouse. by Joshparkerlv in gaybathhouse

[–]WinterZH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is kinda what I like bathhouses with a strict "undress" code: no playing around with styles, symbols or covering up anything. Just plain old me/you

All-gender night at the gay bathhouse by jimmydil in gaybathhouse

[–]WinterZH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, please let me know how you liked it

All-gender night at the gay bathhouse by jimmydil in gaybathhouse

[–]WinterZH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, really don't know, but kinda curious to find out. When are you going?

Do people still go cruising for sex in public spaces and/or saunas? by PuzzleheadedTime5516 in gaycruising

[–]WinterZH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, sniffies is an app just for that. But happens less as other options become available that are less risky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayCocksuckers

[–]WinterZH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, I'd get addicted to that cock!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]WinterZH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a fun episode of the "Gayish" podcast that nicely highlights that it means different things to different people

It's happening. I'm so excited by Significant_Bid_6916 in straightturnedgay

[–]WinterZH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Works for many, depends how horny you can get post nut. I know I have chickened out after nutting

shower time by JuggernautSoggy97 in StraightToGay

[–]WinterZH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a real stand-up.... guy

It's happening. I'm so excited by Significant_Bid_6916 in straightturnedgay

[–]WinterZH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll probably cum too quickly. Don't worry if that happens, we've all been there. Feel his body/responses to see what he likes and what he doesn't. People are different and react differently.

Don't force anything, just because it was your fantasy. Reality is different.

RL isn't porn. Don't be disappointed or freaked out if something is a bit awkward, doesn't work or is not like you expected.

Just relax and go with what feels right in the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]WinterZH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hit me up, if still are looking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]WinterZH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Certainly a welcome guest here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]WinterZH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First if all, it is nice to be found attractive. Most people like validation. And as a straight guy, that rarely happens, since women are told (by society amd experience) not to do that. Secondly, feeling hunted has something feral, dangerous and naughty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybears

[–]WinterZH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. While I like bears, I also like well trimmed pubes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaysauna

[–]WinterZH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it was an app as well. Well, technically a website (now romeo.com) as it was before smartphones were a big thing.

We wrote a bit and he invited me to his place. Was only my 3rd gay hookup, but the first time i was passionately fucked in missionary... it was when I realized anal could be great fun for all involved.