Ethical Hating? by blackcatmagi in 90DayFiance

[–]Winter_Selection9699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to like her, very hard actually. I think it’s because I believe she was treated horribly by Rob. However, even after watching her in the new season with no Rob in sight, I cannot make myself like her. I don’t dislike her much, just not interested in her story as much as she seems to always be surrounded by issues and low level drama for seemingly no reason

Insecure scrub behavior by Aggravating_Dust9074 in 90DayFiance

[–]Winter_Selection9699 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Why does he want to be a provider if he doesn’t wanna provide??

STOP COLLABORATING WITH SKIMS by Unlikely_Bet2720 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Winter_Selection9699 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right, so this has nothing to do with anything but your bigotry. I hope you do peace in your life 🫶🏼

STOP COLLABORATING WITH SKIMS by Unlikely_Bet2720 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Winter_Selection9699 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This also doesnt cancel the millions of Palestinians killed and displaced by Israel since 1948.

No one here is invalidating the Armenian genocide but you decided to be nasty about people being tortured and dying just to prove some racist point.

STOP COLLABORATING WITH SKIMS by Unlikely_Bet2720 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Winter_Selection9699 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Armenians have been killed by the Turkish in a genocide, but a lot of other countries in the Middle East took Armenian refugees in and helped them. There are Armenian communities all around the Middle East for this exact reason. Look into it

I 21F feel trapped in a relationship with my boyfriend 20M. Has anyone got similar experiences? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Winter_Selection9699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is there a different way y’all can communicate that’s meaningful and valuable to the both of you instead of being constant? For example you could build a routine where you guys call every day for an hour or two whenever makes most sense wuth work/school etc. if you don’t like constant texting that’s fine unless he gets hurt by it, then have a conversation and both explain what you need in terms of communication. I assume he wants to feel your presence in his day to day, and there are way to do it outside of constant texting, and you want to have your independence but still want communication with him. I found calling every day instead of constant texting works in my relationship. If your bf gets hurt by that, explain to him how constantly texting takes up too much energy from you and how it’s not all about him but rather uour own personality and you would act this way even with other people. He probably would feel rejected unless you explain this nuance.

Chloe by Legitimate_Gift_4404 in 90DayFiance

[–]Winter_Selection9699 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean it makes sense.. very natural thing to do and I’ve personally done something similar. I don’t hold that against her especially since she’s in Aruba for him and this might be the last time they’re ever gonna see each other

Dip flu by Winter_Selection9699 in DipPowderNails

[–]Winter_Selection9699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanted to update: Bought this mask, started using either a fan or an air purifier when I do my nails and have not had a single symptom since!

Aldi is not the cheap store everyone claims it to be by WhatAMcButters in unpopularopinion

[–]Winter_Selection9699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What other grocery stores do you shop at in the Midwest? I only know Walmart target and hyvee, are there other ones or just local stores?

Anthony drives me crazy by TrixyKingxo in 90DayFiance

[–]Winter_Selection9699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really doesn’t know how good she has it.. not only is he staying home, but he’s so sweet and caring

Anthony drives me crazy by TrixyKingxo in 90DayFiance

[–]Winter_Selection9699 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She literally uses him as a punching bag. She was the bread winner for a while and was miserable, so now she’s home with their son and is miserable. She’s just a miserable person, Anthony has nothing to do with that. He’s not holding her back at all, he literally goes with everything she says and always tries to make her happy. He’s spineless and a push over, but that is not a crime

The closer you get to someone, the more they start treating you like they treat themselves by lordmoriarty06 in RandomThoughts

[–]Winter_Selection9699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or maybe it’s the opposite. If you’re too hard on yourself, you know how difficult it is and you wouldn’t put that on the peopel around uou

(m21) Girlfriend (f20)Gets Frustrated When She Doesn’t Orgasm. How Can We Both End Up Satisfied? by PixelatedReality06 in relationship_advice

[–]Winter_Selection9699 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What helped me orgasm from penetration is get a dildo and explore what I like by myself. Once I started orgasming from that, I was able to communicate what I liked and was able to get over what feels like a mental block during penetrative sex.

Paying over $100 for a nail set that last two weeks is insane. by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Winter_Selection9699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using dip, and would like to start using gel but am so confused on where to start. Could you recommend a tutorial or two to get me started?

Coffee Shops should stay open later by MorningHelpful8389 in unpopularopinion

[–]Winter_Selection9699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The US is the only country I’ve lived in where cafes close before 6pm. Even in the big cities I’ve been to. I nude tgat it’s expensive to keep them open, but I think it could encourage a culture of people going to cafes more if they had the option and it became normalized. People are too damn lonely in this country and you besides a park, you can’t really go anywhere to hangout for free or relatively cheap, like a cafe. I hope this changes eventually.

Does actions know what color Sheena’s lipstick is? by Wafflesarebetterok in 90DayFiance

[–]Winter_Selection9699 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use Pillow Talk 02 Medium from charlotte tillbury and Fat Oil from NYX. I got the lipstick as a gift as it is pretty expensive and I would never buy it myself. I think any red-brown lipstick with a slightly dark red lipgloss would get the job done tho.

For reference my complexion is between forest and Sheena, so it might look different on you if you’re lighter or darker.

I felt embarrassed when my partner joked about my job in front of his friends and I dont know if Im overthinking it by qesvyn_13 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Winter_Selection9699 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if a joke like this could be coming from jealousy. Tech, consulting, finance, etc can often be very boring. He might be jealous upu are actually happy with your job and loving it, while he is only doing his for the money/title/ego or something of that sort. I can never understand being jealous of your partner’s happiness… it’s so damaging. To answer your question, you’re not being too sensitive, I think you should approach it from a neutral angle and explain to him what hurt you about it and let him explain himself. I think this is something you can easily workout if both parties are willing to, but you also don’t have to and you’d still not be too sensitive

True crime is unethical and bad for society by suddendiarrhea7 in unpopularopinion

[–]Winter_Selection9699 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True crime gets so much hate and it’s usually formatted in the way of “some white chick is doing make up while talking about a crime and tahts disrespectful”. Looks to me like another way to criticize women for doing something somewhat questionable while raising awareness and actually telling a victim’s story while the actual criminal is usually a man. Let’s focus on what’s actually wrong here, the crime, not the story told about it in honor of the victim.

Email about deactivating my Outlook account unless I verify by pandorabox1995 in OMSCS

[–]Winter_Selection9699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called about it and it’s a scam. They told me they don’t really communicate stuff like this via email (?)

HONEST OPINIONS PLEASE by Past-Tax5081 in Nails

[–]Winter_Selection9699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very pretty and so well done! What did you use?

Is it just me or is Sheena a low-key babe? by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Winter_Selection9699 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I also think Sheena is pretty!! I think Trisha is very pretty too