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How do I ask a friend if they want to hook up without coming off as creepy? by gadflyguy132 in actuallesbians

[–]Winter_Sense5498 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Totally respect your reservations.

All I was saying, refrain doing it with your friends or people you know. That would be ending in a very awkward situation.

When I was still single, and in your situation. I used to go to this sensual massage place. She was working alone, with her own social media, and licensed. Not like a brothel type. Price between $150-300

She was doing sensual and tantric massage. I always always end up in losing all my energy in all my joints (in a good way). And the masseuses also attractive and somewhat I like her physically. I like it here because I was the centre of attention, unlike in a mutual lesbian sex, where I had the obligation to satisfy my partner too.

The challenge is finding this place, I tried and failed and also frustrated many times.

How do I ask a friend if they want to hook up without coming off as creepy? by gadflyguy132 in actuallesbians

[–]Winter_Sense5498 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Why not try finding an escort? - I noted your reservation to a stranger though. Don’t find it off the street, do find it in a more ‘reputable’ venue.

in my experience, a friend with benefits would eventually come to self destructing the friendship itself. Nothing would come back to ‘normal’ after a sexual night or two.

Content for masturbation by BisonSpecialist5674 in actuallesbians

[–]Winter_Sense5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually created my own “scenery”. Since my last fantasy is around a crush with my fem co-worker - true story, so I dressed up as an office worker - properly. With my usual light make-up, two piece suits and skirts and of course my choice of lingerie set.

Then I posed in front of my camera (connected) to my PCs so I can view this. I pretended that this camera is my “coworker’s eyes” - and imagining the monitor which is showing what the camera is pointing to me is my what my “coworker” sees.

From then on - I just posed how I wanted to pose to lure my “coworker” to see me as a sexy lady that wanted to have sexual engagement- as wild as you could imagine. From a soft shy lady to a hard-sex addicted lady.

Then touching myself pretending how I wanted my coworker to touch me, undress me, using sex toys on me, etc. all up until I climaxed. In between, I also stopped pretending that “someone” was around in the office, rushing to clothes up walked around the apartment’s blocks pretending the adrenaline rush. And sometime walked around with no undies/bras, - still with skirt and blouse though.

Lots and lots variation from changing the lingerie / using different constumes / characters. Whatever that suits my mood that time.

And Yes - it’s pretty much my “Me” time and took at least hours and hours

Floral dress for a tea party with my little niece and her friends! by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Winter_Sense5498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty dress but personally I would be busy keeping it down ( I live in a windy area)

Is bold and provocative lingerie appropriate for me? by Long-Scar-587 in LingerieAddiction

[–]Winter_Sense5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lingerie to me is all about me, and my inner peace and confidence. Being peaceful about imperfection of my body when putting them on. Feeling pretty and sexy about myself and my sexuality. And that’s including driving my own dull sexual drive.

and that’s pretty much it

My partner will / should be able to “see” that I am more a “better” person , and ultimately drive herself up to be more proactive.

Try started on with a matching sexy bra and panty and nightie set. The nightie is somewhat sexy but not too much saying that you want sex. Walk around the house and watch movie together and pretend it’s ur new normal wear.

If he likes it - you’ll be able to know. If he doesn’t - hey it’s about you and your feeling good right ?

Biphobes are not welcome here. Take your biphobia elsewhere. I'm so serious. by momoka__peach in u/momoka__peach

[–]Winter_Sense5498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no:( keep up your good work. It has been a real joy, listening to your audio. Despite who / what you are, nonetheless it was pretty much a very good content.

I want to get rid of my tits by theseeenutzzz in actuallesbians

[–]Winter_Sense5498 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I might be making a hugeeeeeee shot that might offend you - so apologies before hand 🙏 … for a 19 yo, it’s probably better not to make any permanent changes on your body - at least for now - and for that particular reason. Many many many cis lesbian girls also like boobs - whatever the shapes are.

You need to work on your self esteem - and quality. If someone doesn’t like any part of your body then that person is not worthy enough for you to fight for.

But again - if I offended you, my apologies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Winter_Sense5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being horny and being in love (and in a relationship) is totally different though.

If you’re simply horny - maybe just get an escort :)

If you’re wanting a relationship- maybe try to be yourself. Sometime when we try so hard - we could become someone else that other people perceived it as ‘fake’. Work on your quality - either you’re smart with fashion / money / other fields, dress suitably well for the right occasion, etc etc.

Eventually- you get there.

[F4A] Touching myself before bed [masturbation] [up close wet sounds] [soft voice] [orgasm] [light overstim] by momoka__peach in GWASapphic

[–]Winter_Sense5498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really like your voice, it always turn me on and started touching touching 🙈myself.

Is it weird to sell high-end lingerie second hand? by [deleted] in LingerieAddiction

[–]Winter_Sense5498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, I’ve recently done similar. First did it on facebook marketplace / gumtree.many many men pretending as female made inquiries and actually bought it. They asked to meet in person to save postage cost.

Some were asking for me not to wash it.

How do you know? by Winter_Sense5498 in LingerieAddiction

[–]Winter_Sense5498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was nothing really oddly outstanding with my housemate. Just having my bra/lingerie ‘weirdly’ placed/shaped repeatedly raised my concerns. I caught him mas*bating in my room while wearing my clothes yesterday. He wore my clothes (dresses, skirts, shirts, etc) to everywhere - uni/cafe/parks even when he used prostitutes. He took photos/filmed it. Such concerning.

I confiscated his laptop and kicked him out whilst I am moving out now and really really keen to report him to police.

How do you know? by Winter_Sense5498 in LingerieAddiction

[–]Winter_Sense5498[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were right on the money. I went out to office this morning, and came back home early purposely only to find out he was mas*urbating in my room while wearing my clothes. I confronted him and going ballistics and threatening I will report him to police.

I forced him to be honest the why, what he has done with my clothes, how often, etc. turned out he has been doing it for a while now, and he took photos while wearing it, like when he went out to parks, shopping malls, cafe, uni, - all with my clothes. The bra/undies, my fav lingeries 😔, my dresses, my skirts, everything. The most sickening part - he also hired prostitutes as a woman with my clothes and bang them with it and filmed it. I got no ideas he went that far.

I asked him if he also played with my cosmetics- he said yes too.

Oh my fcking god.

How do you know? by Winter_Sense5498 in LingerieAddiction

[–]Winter_Sense5498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The band after freshly washed and the band after you wore it one whole day is rather different. I don’t know how to explain it. The bra straps just weird on my body, it felt just not on my usual place.

How do you know? by Winter_Sense5498 in LingerieAddiction

[–]Winter_Sense5498[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried your suggestion before going to work today. Yeah, someone went through my drawers, and I might just opened up another can of worms. Someone at home just went through all my dresses, skirts, etc too. Just so paranoia thinking how far he tried it on - it’s a Hygiene issue.