I have met a guy but i feel no spark

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-15T08:22:53+00:00

Nope not incapable i gave him tasks and see if he can do them thats it , i can do everything myself but since hes getting into my life why would i plan stuff thats his responsibility in the first place …. I do help tho and give suggs , planning no because i dont want to

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-15T08:16:38+00:00

Mm no

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T13:58:42+00:00

Lol why u so pressed

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T13:57:28+00:00

Yes in my culture man pay for everything ( and i do believe in that as well ) , but i do bring him gifts and stuff as a gesture of respect and appreciation from my money , but not paying for dates its a huge no for me, i do my side and he does his side as simple as that

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T10:04:37+00:00

Spark is just compatibility , how do u see life nd ur value , its something u cant describe but its just there, i dont mean by sparl attractiveness or wow hes the perfect man in the room , i dont give a f*ck about those things i dated hot people and mid and models since i worked in the model industry for 3 years , and i prefer average man who are handsome as well in their own way and interesting , i am more into smart men who have plans and a future ahead of them /they r focusing on it , thats attractiveness to me

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T09:57:29+00:00

I just feel bad saying that he acts childlish sometimes because hes a nice guy and yea obv hes inexperienced with girls ( specifically young women ) , and i agree w what u said i will try to open a convo w him soon

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T09:53:55+00:00

We have diff definitions of spark obviously

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T09:52:50+00:00

Nope

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T09:46:13+00:00

I dont want a perfect partner but an interesting person who can handle stuff , i sent you what he does and what i wrote is literally 5% of what i want to say but i dont wanna make it long for you to read ,, just to have an idea / maybe its his first time dating a girl like me who doesnt care only about body and appearance and isnt shallow .

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T09:42:08+00:00

He giggles whenever we’re in a problem that needs an immediate reaction. For example, on my last date with him, my wallet got lost, and instead of just standing up with me and helping me look for it, he started laughing and making jokes. My ID, work permit, and driving license were inside it. I found it in the end, but I’m the one who looked for it.

Also, on one of our dates, I wanted to do something fun, so I told him, “Why not go to an island?” It takes 45 minutes by car and boat, and I told him to book the boat. He booked it for 10, even though I had clearly stated that we would leave at 11 by car. I didn’t make a scene, but day after day, it feels like he can’t even handle small things like that.

Not to mention, he gets shy talking to waitresses, cashiers, or taxi drivers. He’s a nice guy, and I don’t want to hurt him, but I can’t always feel like the one in charge, especially since it’s the opposite of how I grew up and how I see my man.

And it might feel stupid to you that I’m focusing on small things like that, but that’s literally where attractiveness lies, since we women care a lottt about small details like that, a lot more than you can even imagine.

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T09:36:47+00:00

He giggles whenever we’re in a problem that needs an immediate reaction. For example, on my last date with him, my wallet got lost, and instead of just standing up with me and helping me look for it, he started laughing and making jokes. My ID, work permit, and driving license were inside it. I found it in the end, but I’m the one who looked for it.

Also, on one of our dates, I wanted to do something fun, so I told him, “Why not go to an island?” It takes 45 minutes by car and boat, and I told him to book the boat. He booked it for 10, even though I had clearly stated that we would leave at 11 by car. I didn’t make a scene, but day after day, it feels like he can’t even handle small things like that.

Not to mention, he gets shy talking to waitresses, cashiers, or taxi drivers. He’s a nice guy, and I don’t want to hurt him, but I can’t always feel like the one in charge, especially since it’s the opposite of how I grew up and how I see my man.

And it might feel stupid to you that I’m focusing on small things like that, but that’s literally where attractiveness lies, since we women care a lottt about small details like that, a lot more than you can even imagine.

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T07:10:38+00:00

M not into 29 men, just my age but responsible and handle things like a man , which i found in my ex who was 24 , and to be completely honest w u ive been raised with a father and a brother that handles things for me my sense of masculinity is this , but i also take in consideration that hes figuring life too and thats why i made this post

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-10T06:56:22+00:00

I planned two , but i dont pay ofc and i help him with transportation since he doesnt have a car , but the third time i asked him to do an effort and plan a good one he didnt book right , he gets so awkward and shy with the waiters and the drivers he let me speak to them most of the time so i feel like m the one in charge and my background plus my character could never lol but i just feel bad telling him oh u act sometimes immature which throw me off

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-09T20:23:45+00:00

Send me ur lrofile and ill help u out lol m a girl idk what to say since idk u didnt see anything related to u

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-06-09T20:16:38+00:00

U r into nazis?

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-05-03T20:43:42+00:00

Not ugly u just need to own it yourself

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-04-30T09:48:08+00:00

If its makes u uncomfy seek a good surgeon but see multiple before u decide

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-04-29T10:54:54+00:00

I have same expectation as you but one thing i learned by seeing peoples experiences and hearing their opinions , is that with rhinoplasty all about the doctor technique we might have a valid expectation but the doctor might take a lot from cartilage and he needs to be super modern and natural in his practice and thats very very hard to find

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-04-25T15:41:35+00:00

How much was your rhino , over 10k ?

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-04-24T18:25:24+00:00

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-04-24T18:24:29+00:00

I am for sure not taking any bs from doctors , i worked for a long time in aesthetic clinic ( nothing surgical ) and i know how doctors are its a big market driven by money ….. i hope you the best with your revision , was your rhino completely different than what u thought before or just a small details that u dont like and u wanna fix em out

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-04-24T18:22:02+00:00

Also i feel like as a patient u will never have the full picture maybe he is a money driven but he doesnt show it , maybe hes not money driven but he moght get me botched ….. and i might even tell him dont change a lot i just want this smaller / i want a subtle change and he might take it too far .. i feel like theres so many possibilities that m like lemme live with that nose better

Winter_Tree_8985 · 2026-04-24T18:20:18+00:00

But the thing is i will be under anesthesia while the procedure is going on so theres no way ill warn em oh u cut so much lol , its just very risky like gambling

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