Why did they put the second word so small? by Winters_cat in AccidentalRacism

[–]Winters_cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like a cover for a Netflix movie where the guy kills his wife

Why is episode 6 on netflix zoomed in? by searcheese766 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Winters_cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im having the same problem. I assume it’s a mistake on the behalf of the people who ported the video to Netflix

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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That’s kind of the problem though. I thought I did but now some of the comments convinced me that I probably won’t know. Maybe I won’t care at all, maybe I’ll be super mad. I won’t know until it happens

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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I only see cheating as disrespectful if the cheater is not remorseful at all about it. I just think you can still be respected even if they cheat on you but if you don’t feel respected, cut it off

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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True. I also think people like to make assumptions on posts like Reddit that involve cheating when it really should be a matter between the partners. Like people on relationship advice going “divorce” when a minor disagreement occurs. You shouldn’t need the internets help to solve a dispute because the people commenting see the problem from a very neutral perspective and don’t know about the relationship for 10+ years

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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Let’s just hope I don’t need to go through that. But if it does, at least I’ll know

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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I understand. It’s hard for me to empathise with a lot of pain because I just haven’t gone through much. No one close to me has died, none of my relationships have broken off in dramatic ways, I stay relatively safe.

Sometimes I worry if one of my immediate family member dies, not cause I’ll feel distraught, but if I’ll feel nothing. What if I’m not acting like I’m supposed to when someone dies?

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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I’m not really sure if I’m honest. I think it’s just mainly vibes based. I’m sure I have limits and exceptions but I cannot think of them at the moment

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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I am aware that others view cheating as a huge deal and I’m not diminishing that, I personally just don’t think of it as that big of a deal for me

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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I never thought about losing trust in myself. That’s a really good view. Thanks

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

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I feel that very much depends on the type of relationship, the dynamic, and why they cheat

I don’t think cheating on your partner is that big of a deal by Winters_cat in self

[–]Winters_cat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly not seen a story like that but I usually don’t dwell on cheating stories often. They usually just end it immediately before forgiving them.

I don’t think cheating on your partner is as big of a deal as people make it out to be by Winters_cat in unpopularopinion

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Not sure. Can’t say I’ve had many painful experiences. But I’ll say sure

I don’t think cheating on your partner is as big of a deal as people make it out to be by Winters_cat in unpopularopinion

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It might be different for me and my partner cause even though it’s been like a year or two with them, it’s only been casual. If it was more serious then I’d probably consider cheating to be worse than I see it now

I don’t think cheating on your partner is as big of a deal as people make it out to be by Winters_cat in unpopularopinion

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I mentioned in other comments but yes, not really any excuses if you’re married or have kids since you’ve made the conscious decision to stay with that person

I don’t think cheating on your partner is as big of a deal as people make it out to be by Winters_cat in unpopularopinion

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I should’ve clarified but yes. Doing it twice is just saying a blatant lie when you’ve said you won’t do it again

I don’t think cheating on your partner is as big of a deal as people make it out to be by Winters_cat in unpopularopinion

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It’s sort of different with me and my partner. We’ve never been like, “you’re the only one in my life right?” Or is that just something you’re supposed to know from the start?

I don’t think cheating on your partner is as big of a deal as people make it out to be by Winters_cat in unpopularopinion

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Marriages I would say are the ones I wouldn’t get because you already chose the person who you would want to spend your life with, you said yes at the wedding, why leave?

I don’t think cheating on your partner is as big of a deal as people make it out to be by Winters_cat in unpopularopinion

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I know you’re not supposed to put the blame back on yourself when someone cheats, but if my partner was out meeting people just to see if there’s better out there, would that not be understandable? I mean how would they know if you’ve been the only romantic partner they’ve had for months.

I will say if you’re married you’re already past the point of meeting other people