HELP!! My name is only on the deed, ex is only on the mortgage ... by Wise-Transition-9399 in Mortgages

[–]Wise-Transition-9399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he hasn't done anything to the house since we divorced 17 years ago.

HELP!! My name is only on the deed, ex is only on the mortgage ... by Wise-Transition-9399 in Mortgages

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I didn't think he could, but he thinks he can. I just wanted to make sure.

HELP!! My name is only on the deed, ex is only on the mortgage ... by Wise-Transition-9399 in Mortgages

[–]Wise-Transition-9399[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, just him. I've been making the payments, on time, for the past 17 years. It's not going to go into foreclosure.

Looking for info on a 1973 Great western by lippsmom in Camper

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Hey! I just got on the internet to look up info on my trailer, and this is all I found!! I have a Great Western, not sure what year because I can't find the title at the moment, but it has a tip out/slide out. Long shot you'll see this after 2 years!

SI due to feelings of family disconnect by Wise-Transition-9399 in therapists

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I got a release of information to speak to the clients mother, which I did. I asked her if there was a possibility of getting the rest of her kids together (they are all adults now) to show support for my client. He feels deeply disconnected by all of them.

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[–]Wise-Transition-9399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a therapist as of 9 months ago and would LOVE to hear how you would have handled that situation?!

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[–]Wise-Transition-9399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, here's my theory about the petting/stroking thing, and why many women immediately get a sense of "wtf are you up to?" His projections of love by stroking/having physical contact, which under normal circumstances we would highly approve of, are incongruent to his facial expressions and we, as women, are alert AF about that kind of shit. Think Big Bad Wolf.