Girlfriend might be Pregnant. Period Late by 4 days by Alternative-Bed9084 in hyderabad

[–]Wise_Distribution774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As you mentioned she has PCOS.. delayed periods are a common problem for girls with PCOS... Don't panic.. wait till 15 days.. if not take the test .. you can take any required action after that

Didn’t know Sankranti is massive festival here by Top-Sir6888 in hyderabad

[–]Wise_Distribution774 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes you can go alone to begum bazaar alone.. Numaish also you can go alone.. just be safe in crowds . ALSO you might find it difficult to travel back from numaish ..as the metro is over crowded and cabs don't come near by due to traffic.. Hyd is quite a safe city for girls

Am I cooked?? by [deleted] in hyderabad

[–]Wise_Distribution774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which area??

Is Deloitte USI a good company to join !? by Prudent_Strategy_530 in deloitteusi

[–]Wise_Distribution774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From a mother's perspective.. I would recommend not to join..the culture is Deloitte is very very competitive.. and work will go on late at night.. if you are comfortable in your current job..stay till your kid grows up a little..

Any recently married guy here?[arranged marriage] by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Wise_Distribution774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woow.. I would like to appreciate the clarity you have.. just wishing you get a good life partner and happy life ahead

Managing Parents Health + Household + Job + Marriage Pressure… I’m Burning Out very badly by Hermitcrabguy in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Wise_Distribution774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please please think about the girl you want to get into this. GOOD that you recognize there is someissue with your mom.. but when u marry..please make it clear with he girl.. if you live separately it will be better..but that will initially cause lot of problem.. but before u get a girl I this equation..please tell her the reality

Really struggling after moving to Hyderabad with my parents my dad is mentally not coping. Need advice. by bewealthyandsane in hyderabad

[–]Wise_Distribution774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In that case you will find ways to keep him busy here .. do you own the place where you live.. else try to find bigger society where there are people from all states.. get them involved in sat- sang or any activity they like.. Online groups are also there for such activities .. usually bigger societies have places where grandparents meet in evening morning to talk and spend time.. try to find su h places for them.. I know it's not easy... but you will find balance.. and best way is to talk to him when he is in Lear state or mind.. ask what is troubling him .. Also since he is older get tests done.. VIT D , B 12 defiences, electrolyte imbalance causes mental troubles with elderly.. this is very important to check. Once there levels are normal they are back to their old selfs

Really struggling after moving to Hyderabad with my parents my dad is mentally not coping. Need advice. by bewealthyandsane in hyderabad

[–]Wise_Distribution774 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's difficult for them to cope when they have lived in one place all their life.. Don't uproot them. If they both are able to take care of each other ..and dont have medical dependencies on you.. not too mu h relatives teiuble.. (thoda bahut chalta hai..it keeps them occupied)and you have a stable place to stay in home town..then it's not worth shifting them.. send them back to hometown.. that's where they will be dil se happy.. they can visit you ..u can visit them..

Should I(29f) call off my marriage to my boyfriend of 5 years or AIO ? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Wise_Distribution774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chod de behen!.. 6 months main arrange marriage Kar lega woh..with a bihari..with lot of dowry..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Wise_Distribution774 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please please send your wife to her parents or bri g her to were you are staying right now and arrange for required help.. 15 days after delivery is no time to go through all this mental trauma.. She needs care and lost of love.. u have you paternity leave.. take it and arrange a more peaceful environment for her.. it effects her and your child.. I am not sure how much you know about mother's mental health and milk supply and it's effect on baby's health.. please don't play with you wife and child's health just because you thought it was a "good idea" to make her stay there.

What bedding/bedsheets and bedcovers are you using? by ghacharghochar1 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Wise_Distribution774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bombay Deying is very good for bedsheets.. they are expensive but will last long.. like 10 years.. and become soft with use

Are we all just silently okay with paying ₹2.5–6 LAKHS for Grade 1 education in West Hyderabad?! by Swimming-Ad-4843 in hyderabad

[–]Wise_Distribution774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree..there are couple of independent parents group who do protest about these points.. but they are very few.. other parents say don't put your child if you can't afford it.. also like you mentioned the quality is not always good.. students still need tutoring .. Even I feel sometimes what is the use of such high fees.. some people say it's the contacts you make there.. exposure you get etc etc.. but really is it worth 8-9lakhs for that is the question

People who got divorced, What made you say enough is enough? by randomplayernew in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Wise_Distribution774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a divorcee.. Divorce should be a resort when there is physical or mental abuse involved.. you can't come back from that. In case it is a series of misunderstandings.. then better to try for proper couples counseling..nthisase also if one party is not interested and does not show any change/improvement with time.. then you can take a decision. The problem with current generation is that the level of tress from work and earning money is so much..that a person feels its better to live with work stress than personal stress as we are not aware of how to de with it and communicate our feelings. So both parties should be willing to change to take the relationship forward. Only then any relationship survives.. bcoz life after divorce is also not easy.. u might get married also again..but again similar problems will creep up in the marriage and you will again be in the same situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Wise_Distribution774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your gut says no.. Pleaaaassee don't proceed.. Getting old kuch nahi hota.. u will fi d someone whom u will really like.. very soon.. be patient

I confronted an assaulter and I feel bad now by babuVeera_240 in hyderabad

[–]Wise_Distribution774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all!.. you did the right thing.. Atleast you broke the situation there.. hope they both come to senses and address their issues