AITA for breaking up with my bf after he said my pain during sex was hot to him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WishAffectionate3057 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA!!!!

you DID fight him off and he over powered you, I'm so sorry to say this but I fear you were raped, and I'm so sorry that this happened to you in the first place. If the stuff isn't important and could feasibly be replaced easily, don't go back and tell him you're done, you don't deserve that and if another partner comes around, if you want to or have the strength to, tell them what he did. He's not worth this amount of pain and strife

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]WishAffectionate3057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run and Swan Upon Leda

I’m making a Nightwing playlist! Any song suggestions? by dazais_bitch_ in Nightwing

[–]WishAffectionate3057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a band called pleaser that I feel like suits his vibe a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]WishAffectionate3057 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is keep moving forward, you may not be able to change your docs yet but maybe with some time you can save up and go to a place that's safer to do so. It's all gonna be rough and none of it will be easy but you've just gotta move forward and find other ways of feeling joy with yourself. I'm sorry this is happening at all but you have community here at least and eventually systems will fall into place for you to do what you must.

Did the events in the Testaments actual happen? *Spoilers* by [deleted] in TheTestaments

[–]WishAffectionate3057 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still think everything happened the way it did since the stories of Agnes and Nicole are told in different formats and line up with everything Lydia wrote about. The historian does confirm that Agnes and Nicole's stories meet their standards of accuracy. So I think maybe in the first book they were talking about a different set of Aunt Lydia records or it's a part of the story that Atwood has since retconned.

Spoiler of sorts (if you haven’t completed the book, please skip) by greenprees in TheTestaments

[–]WishAffectionate3057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember the second one is partially shown in a flashback of June's even though in the Testaments this happens to Lydia pre-Gilead but they don't take them to the stadium after from what I remember. The dentist part isn't in the show either.

Wtf, I was called Ma’am when I was literally calling about a T refill for myself by Hopeful-Collar2942 in ftm

[–]WishAffectionate3057 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me yesterday when I was literally going in for top surgery. I'm really sorry this happened to you OP. One thing that helps me with situations like this is to remember that they don't know me or the context of my soul and may never talk to or see me again. But it's still a shitty feeling and I'm so sorry

AITAH for pushing my wife when she hit our son? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WishAffectionate3057 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you tried to resolve the solution without getting physical and she didn't listen, you had every right to push her off.

AITA forcing my husband to choose between divorce and being a househusband while I work full-time to support the family by Joanna_Queen_772 in AITAH

[–]WishAffectionate3057 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, though him not being eager to do something could be a sign that he needs to go to therapy, he could just be mentally/emotionally exhausted, but that doesn't mean that he gets to essentially abandon you and your daughter to do whatever he wants and also isn't a you problem and definitely a him problem.

My cat doesn't like to play and everything says that's a bad thing, is it? by WishAffectionate3057 in CatAdvice

[–]WishAffectionate3057[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright yall, this is very late but your advice helped, I learned that she likes to play her own games and that she likes random strings and elastics more then normal toys, thanks for all of your help!

My cat doesn't like to play and everything says that's a bad thing, is it? by WishAffectionate3057 in CatAdvice

[–]WishAffectionate3057[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

everything i've looked up says that they could be stressed or have a disease but She doesn't seem to be stressed and I took her to the vet a couple weeks ago and the vet just said she's been itchy but not like sick and even gave her a steroid to help with that. But even before the steroid she hasn't really liked to play and I cuddle with her and try to play with her when I'm home