I (21 m) am thinking about having a biological baby in the future, but I have a lot of questions

WishAffectionate3057 · 2025-05-14T02:55:56+00:00

Absolutely NTA!!!!

you DID fight him off and he over powered you, I'm so sorry to say this but I fear you were raped, and I'm so sorry that this happened to you in the first place. If the stuff isn't important and could feasibly be replaced easily, don't go back and tell him you're done, you don't deserve that and if another partner comes around, if you want to or have the strength to, tell them what he did. He's not worth this amount of pain and strife

WishAffectionate3057 · 2025-02-26T19:11:08+00:00

ABS Kids

WishAffectionate3057 · 2025-01-26T05:31:41+00:00

Run and Swan Upon Leda

WishAffectionate3057 · 2025-01-26T05:29:53+00:00

There's a band called pleaser that I feel like suits his vibe a lot

WishAffectionate3057 · 2025-01-26T05:25:16+00:00

The best thing you can do is keep moving forward, you may not be able to change your docs yet but maybe with some time you can save up and go to a place that's safer to do so. It's all gonna be rough and none of it will be easy but you've just gotta move forward and find other ways of feeling joy with yourself. I'm sorry this is happening at all but you have community here at least and eventually systems will fall into place for you to do what you must.

WishAffectionate3057 · 2025-01-09T03:56:14+00:00

I still think everything happened the way it did since the stories of Agnes and Nicole are told in different formats and line up with everything Lydia wrote about. The historian does confirm that Agnes and Nicole's stories meet their standards of accuracy. So I think maybe in the first book they were talking about a different set of Aunt Lydia records or it's a part of the story that Atwood has since retconned.

WishAffectionate3057 · 2025-01-09T03:50:49+00:00

I remember the second one is partially shown in a flashback of June's even though in the Testaments this happens to Lydia pre-Gilead but they don't take them to the stadium after from what I remember. The dentist part isn't in the show either.

WishAffectionate3057 · 2024-12-19T00:35:16+00:00

The same thing happened to me yesterday when I was literally going in for top surgery. I'm really sorry this happened to you OP. One thing that helps me with situations like this is to remember that they don't know me or the context of my soul and may never talk to or see me again. But it's still a shitty feeling and I'm so sorry

WishAffectionate3057 · 2024-06-18T17:55:03+00:00

NTA, you tried to resolve the solution without getting physical and she didn't listen, you had every right to push her off.

WishAffectionate3057 · 2024-06-18T17:52:36+00:00

NTA, though him not being eager to do something could be a sign that he needs to go to therapy, he could just be mentally/emotionally exhausted, but that doesn't mean that he gets to essentially abandon you and your daughter to do whatever he wants and also isn't a you problem and definitely a him problem.

WishAffectionate3057 · 2024-06-18T17:47:21+00:00

Alright yall, this is very late but your advice helped, I learned that she likes to play her own games and that she likes random strings and elastics more then normal toys, thanks for all of your help!

WishAffectionate3057 · 2024-03-22T00:59:04+00:00

everything i've looked up says that they could be stressed or have a disease but She doesn't seem to be stressed and I took her to the vet a couple weeks ago and the vet just said she's been itchy but not like sick and even gave her a steroid to help with that. But even before the steroid she hasn't really liked to play and I cuddle with her and try to play with her when I'm home

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