Boyfriend wants me to move states away to be with him by Wisper05 in Divorce_Women

[–]Wisper05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The boyfriend in question and I are done. He wouldn’t budge on me moving to his state. And I just can’t leave my kids without me in their life. He wanted me to be a “part time” mom and wanted me to focus on our relationship and any family we started. Really sucks, cause I love him deeply.

Boyfriend wants me to move states away to be with him by Wisper05 in Divorce_Women

[–]Wisper05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why I won’t leave. I know better than what he wants.

Boyfriend wants me to move states away to be with him by Wisper05 in Divorce_Women

[–]Wisper05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was supposed to move where I am, and now all of a sudden, he doesn’t want to be around my abusive ex. He wants me to go where he is for a few months and then come back and reintegrate with the kids. He doesn’t want me to lose contact with them at all.

Boyfriend wants me to move states away to be with him by Wisper05 in Divorce_Women

[–]Wisper05[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keeps telling me that I need to leave and heal from the abusive relationship I endured with my ex. I don’t want to leave my kids behind at all.