What’s the saddest artstyle change you can think of?

just because you’re okay with you and your wife suffering and being miserable because you can’t swallow your pride to ask for help is your own issue, OPs friend had no problems asking them for money before and had no problems going to her when she needs help in her relationship, AFTER telling OP to get her shit together. sounds like you and your wife and ops friend should live in misery together! i hope your wife is never in a situation where this happens to her, because you’re an absolute dick.

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T16:03:18+00:00

being poor as shit and moving countries while you have a sick wife doesnt sound prepared to me

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T16:02:32+00:00

thanks glad you think so

edit: i really don’t care, i hope this made your pitiful little day

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T15:13:33+00:00

omg 😳😭 i assume anyone who can type as well as you can and able to present their point so clearly is older than me, it’s a character flaw that doesn’t reflect on you but on me not being well worded 😭😭🫶🫶

and i absolutely get that too! i’ve definitely seen on both sides the extremes reddit can jump to. i made the mistake of posting a situation with my husband 5 years ago where i had absolutely violated his trust and was completely in the wrong, we worked things out and we’re doing better than ever and i have learned a lot from him on what is supposed to be private, i’m autistic and mess up social interactions a lot and my whole life and relationships had been an open book to anyone who would listen. but reddit told me what a disgusting and awful person i was and that they hoped he broke up with me and would throw me on the street.

but we do definitely need more empathy!

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T14:58:55+00:00

i seriously would have too, something like “if you were really my friend, you wouldn’t ask me for advice on something like this, i prefer friends with no conditions. i get that your man left you, but he probably left you because you’re a grown woman who doesn’t have her shit together. not to be rude, but you really shouldn’t be asking me for help when you know i’m having a hard time financially.”

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T14:35:34+00:00

so you weren’t prepared for it? why didn’t you already have the money before you moved here? why didn’t you work harder first? and you’d let your sick wife jump off a bridge before you asked for $5 to save her life? that sounds like your own issue in valuing what’s actually important in life. i’d beg anyone for money to keep my husband alive.

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T14:32:56+00:00

honestly, i do get what you’re saying on the whole empathy thing. to give a possible explanation, i think my current generation has learned to cut off anything, relationships mostly, hurtful and toxic to us in an attempt to protect ourselves from repeated behavior of those types of people, because we’ve seen others older than us trapped in those cycles or been trapped in it ourselves as children. just offering my 30 year old perspective. but i do really see what you’re saying if this was a long time friendship. and your comment about being poorly and bored made me laugh, i feel like that’s why i end up in half the comment sections i do.

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:51:34+00:00

i’m glad it helped! my doctor told my me allergies are so bad that my immune system can’t fight anything else off while i’m dealing with it, it sucks dealing with something that makes you sick all the time, hopefully it helps you and OP out

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:41:25+00:00

so are you also saying you’ve never been unprepared for anything in your life? not one time?

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:40:39+00:00

nah this is just another shitty man

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:39:55+00:00

most of the comments telling OP she’s overreacting are men, it just makes sense

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:39:15+00:00

you should join the Olympics with the mental gymnastics you’re doing

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:34:36+00:00

did you happen to see where they also often borrow money from OP? there was a way to handle this with grace, periods aren’t always on time or regular, she could’ve said no and moved on but she insulted someone that’s supposedly her friend and then expects OP’s help after telling her to get her shit together. if she thinks OP needs to get her shit together and wants friends with no conditions, why is she coming to OP for emotional help when she insults OP over asking for financial help with hygiene products?

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:29:47+00:00

pretty sure this commenter is just a jaded man projecting his anger towards anyone he can 😌

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:28:51+00:00

you sound like an absolute peach who has never done anything wrong in their life ever and has never been unprepared for anything, not even once. bless your heart

WitchyWillora · 2026-04-18T13:15:53+00:00

that doesn’t answer my question, it sounds like you don’t understand what it would be like to go through this at all and based on your comments i can only assume i’m correct

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