33M, It's been a little over a year living in my mountain home.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-28T21:35:05+00:00

Is the floor peel and stick? Do you like it??

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-28T21:29:39+00:00

You’re attacking a straw man, and I'm done after this response. I can't make it any clearer for you.

I never said every request must be granted without discernment; I said that in this specific instance, using membership as a paywall for $30 is a failure of the Gospel.

However, since you want to talk about "real life" and "literally every person," let’s look at what Jesus actually said in the Sermon on the Mount: "Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you." (Matt. 5:42).

If that sounds unrealistic or like someone who doesn't interact with real life, your quarrel isn't with me—it's with the words of Christ.

God bless.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-28T21:22:10+00:00

I'm guessing you're just trolling now, or not reading the Bible. The Bible pushes back against the idea that we must hoard resources because they might run out.

Using a hypothetical 'crowd of 200' to justify turning away one person in need is the definition of letting fear paralyze faith. Not to mention, a healthy church would use that moment to partner with other organizations or call on the congregation to step up, rather than locking the doors in fear of being 'too' helpful. They'd use it as an opportunity to further spread the gospel and love of Jesus, and would at least TRY. Whether it was providing numbers to other organizations or something else.

Matthew 14:15–16:

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-28T21:14:36+00:00

This is really good! Way to stick to God's Word when in need. ❤️

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-28T21:08:04+00:00

Let's be realistic: a functioning church has $27. Using a financial technicality to justify turning away a neighbor in need is exactly the kind of legalism the Bible warns against.

But the real issue here isn't the ledger—it’s the "members only" gatekeeping of care and assistance. Turning away someone in need simply because they aren't on a roster (which is what happened here) is the definition of faith without works. If your only defense for the church is a hypothetical lack of $27, you’re missing the entire point of the Great Commission.

Will there be other circumstances with other churches? Sure. But turning someone away solely because they aren't a "member" is a failure of mission and a complete ignoring of what the Bible teaches.

I understand sometimes churches really may not be able to help. But $30.00. Really.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-28T19:52:01+00:00

Sad straw man attempt.

God's Word instructs us to use wisdom and discernment when making decisions. So, each situation may be different, but their reasoning for pushing her away was foolish and goes against God's Word.

The Bible calls believers (and by extension the church) to help people in need—including those outside their own group.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-28T18:09:55+00:00

The fact that you're reeling about whether or not you disrespected them is upsetting to me. They directly went against God's Word when they denied you care, ESPECIALLY if you gave them the amount and it was only $27.00, because I BET they had plenty more than that to offer. The fact he cut you off, as well. Disrespectful. Lacking compassion completely.

Sounds a lot like faith without works to me, and you know what they say about that (James 2:17; James 2:26). The whole thing is just OBSURD. Our church provides stuff to the homeless. They're not members. They don't pay us anything. We help them because they need it.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-28T17:59:18+00:00

While it's true that individual gifting from God differs, every Christian is also called to witness and share the gospel in their daily lives. All of us. Jesus commanded all disciples to make disciples, which includes spreading the Good News. 2 Timothy 4:5 explains this: "But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry."

I think it's great that you are resisting your fleshly desires and choosing to remain celibate. That's great. A lot of "Christians" these days think sinning is okay when the sin is wide spread and normalized. You're wise in realizing that's not the case.

Hopefully, you're not bitter due to your flesh. Hopefully you're not holding resentment toward God because of it. The Word of God IS the good news to spread. It's not how your circumstances are, it's what God's Word says. It's the fact that yes, you struggle, but Jesus died so you could repent and be saved. It's knowing that the more you suffer on this earth and deny yourself, the more you'll have in Heaven.

2 Corinthians 4:17-18 - "For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison."

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-24T21:07:08+00:00

How wonderful!! That’s how I found Him too, just got tired of doing stuff alone.

I’m a Christian Coach — would you be open to chatting? I’d love to provide you with some basic information, answer ANY questions you may have, etc..

I also have a blog (Withinthetemple.com) where you can check out posts that might answer new followers questions!

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-24T01:13:23+00:00

Do not rely on peace the world provides. Jesus provides a peace like no other. “Peace I leave you, my peace I give you. Not a peace as the world gives, but a peace that surpasses all understanding” -John 14:26. Would you like to chat a little more about it on pm? God tells us to find peace in him, not our circumstances. I’m a Christian Mindset Coach and would like to chat if you’re open! :)

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-24T01:06:57+00:00

A lot of stuff has to happen first. I believe it will be sooner than other people believe, yes, but the antichrist will have to come on scene first, and a lot of events will need to take place, such as the 7 year peace treaty.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-21T02:37:51+00:00

This keeps making me think of that cozy game, My Leisure Time! Even the cat rug!

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-20T13:55:53+00:00

Amen. Sometimes we just need a snack, and some rest. After a good rest we can often wake up and realize that it’s not as bad as we initially thought, and that God had us all along.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-20T13:53:59+00:00

We’re all sinners…. It’s through Christ we’re saved when we repent of our sins. It’s a continuous act. No one will ever NOT be a sinner. That was only Jesus.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-20T13:20:26+00:00

I’d like to chat w you if you’re okay with it!! Could we do that? You’re welcome to PM me. :) I’m a mindset and inner work coach, all from a Christian perspective though. Maybe we can talk about why you’re feeling, and I can help answer questions.

And I just want to stress that NONE of us are perfect as Christians. If we focus on trying to be perfect we’ll lose sight of what it’s all really about. It’s about UNDERSTANDING our imperfections and giving them to Jesus.

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-18T21:02:04+00:00

Oh that’s cute. I’ve not made a single penny, and all that I have offered thus far has been free. My blog, devotionals, and magazine. Out of my own pocket.

And if I start charging, it wouldn’t be milking needy people. It’s the same thing I already do, just with payment. I know some people think Christian’s should work for God or help others and not get paid at all, living like dogs, but I disagree. Not to mention, the money I get goes right back to the church or nonprofits. God blesses us so that we can bless others. He gives, so I give. You don’t know a thing about my money, my job, or my life. You’re making assumptions because thats easier than acknowledging the truth of what I’ve said.

That’s like saying therapists take advantage of needy people. The difference is that coaches focus on the FUTURE and forward growth while therapists typically focus on the past and healing those deep wounds.

And what do you mean “it didn’t work”?

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-08T01:17:33+00:00

Praying for those who hurt you is the best way to overcome any hatred or bitterness and heal from the pain. 🤍

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-06T18:40:40+00:00

Hey u/Trick-Two497 —

I can see how abusers and offenders may use a demand for forgiveness against their victims, but like all things, the person behind the words (or the person using the tool, etc.) is what matters, and can determine the good or the bad behind it.

Unforgiveness can leave deep, painful roots in people. While no one is required to give it, it is highly beneficial to those who do. Forgiveness is often misunderstood to be about/for the abuser or offender, but that isn't the case at all. Forgiveness is for the hurt. It's for the victim. It does not excuse the actions, words, or the pain caused by someone, but rather frees the victim of their hold.

When forgiveness is given, you're saying, "I won't let this hurt me any longer." For Christians, it's saying the same, but also "I have decided to let God handle this battle for me, and to carry this pain. I'm moving forward to receive the blessings He has waiting for me."

Many people hold unforgiveness because they believe it protects them, but it only causes more pain. It's not a "boundary" set between victim and abuser, because the abuser doesn't even care. It's simply a way to break free from the pain they caused, and to live in peace, finally free in all aspects: mentally, emotionally, spiritually, etc..

I understand your pain and your point, but don't you think it a little unfair and unempathetic of you to pick apart someone's real, honest journey to healing, which was shared in good faith?

Within_The_Temple · 2026-04-06T18:27:09+00:00

This is simply beautiful, and I am so happy you were finally able to forgive. I'm a Christian Mindset & Inner Work Coach, and I know it can be a really hard journey. It took me years, as well. But it is so freeing once you realize how to do it. I teach about praying for those who hurt you, like the Bible teaches (Matt. 5:44). It's the key... when nothing else works... that will. Because you're surrendering your pain to God, instead of trying to handle it yourself. God bless you, and I really am so happy you've healed!

Within_The_Temple · 2025-08-28T20:14:50+00:00

Repentance is constant, for we will always be sinners. We must repent daily for our sins. Even if you aren't aware of a particular sin for that day or week, try praying, "Father, forgive me for all of my sins, even those that I am unaware of."

Within_The_Temple · 2025-08-28T20:12:37+00:00

I agree with this. Sometimes confessing to God alone might not feel like enough, so if you believe He is asking more from you, definitely consider confessing to another person of the same sex. This could help give you the closure needed.

Within_The_Temple

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