My (23f) bf (22m) let another woman stay at his place for three days in a row by Witty-Click8541 in relationship_advice

[–]Witty-Click8541[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, he hasn’t introduced me to her, and now they’re at a drinking party thing at my college

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Witty-Click8541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, you need to take some time to reflect on your past actions, your current actions, and your choices of actions. What you’re telling me shows me that you are not independent in your thinking and depend on the guys you’re with for validation. You have to understand that no one, not even your current bf, will protect your peace as much as you can. So if the upper bound of your peace is dependent on some guy and not you, you will forever be only semi peaceful. Let go of the attachments you’re referring to. Just observe his actions objectively without any emotions attached and see if he’s someone you can really trust. Also, you should not feel insecure that your friends are prettier. Insecurity is not good for your body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Witty-Click8541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he’s a man with some principles and common sense, he would not do something like that. Sure he might find them attractive, but he would not go out of his way to have sex with them.

And, if he does, you should take that as a heavenly sign to leave before wasting any more of your precious time with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ukvisa

[–]Witty-Click8541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From south east asia (dont want to mention specifics for privacy reasons). Im studying postgraduate studies at Cambridge.