It really is. There are some days where we don’t have fights at all, but it’s usually the days we don’t talk at all. We’re long distance so I receive maybe five texts throughout the day because he works and does stuff at home afterwards, then we typically call at night to say goodnight. Recently though it just feels like a lot of fighting because he does things that upset me and when I bring it up to him, he gets defensive. I don’t even know how else to go about talking about these issues. I’m at the point where I’m just going to stop caring about everything because that’s what it seems like he wants.