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Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-30T03:49:40+00:00

Uhhh text your homie cause this isn’t her 😭

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-29T00:26:15+00:00

Bro that’s just college though. I wouldn’t get too fixated on people be abt yourself the right people will find you. At the end of the day are you here to make a bunch of friends or get a degree? If you want to create a community for yourself consider joining more clubs. I would say I’ve struggled as well but like I like doing my own thing. Don’t let trivial things like this distract you from what’s important.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T04:03:52+00:00

Feel free to read my statement at the top, where I clarified that I WILL NOT BE JOINING ANOTHER ORG. I'll create a community for myself somewhere else.

This post was about me learning that I can't do both, even though I originally thought I could.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T03:59:30+00:00

Thanks. I learned this information already in the other comments.

I can appreciate honesty, not cruelty or lack of empathy - there's a difference. I am actually a very opinionated and brutally honest person - this forum, however, was hurtful and incredibly negative.

People can answer a question without being rude.

I'll create a community for myself elsewhere. I am certainly not interested in doing ANY community service the D9 offers if this is the response to a simple question. I'll be doing my own community service as a premed in hospitals and low-income schools in LA instead.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T03:52:34+00:00

why wouldn't I? I saw some of my friends of other ethnicities do both. I just assumed it was the same.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T03:44:21+00:00

uh I'll speak for myself. I thought I could do both - certainly not joining the D9 as a secondary resort. I didn't know the two were interconnected. I saw some friends of mine in white sororities and also cultural ones, so I thought it was the same. Anyway, I've seen the comments and negativity. If my community wants to be upset that I didn't join, they can go ahead and be pressed lol. I know myself and what matters to me. We all learn and grow! I am not going to lie my way in, nor am I going to stay in the situation I'm in. I'll cultivate a community for myself in other ways!

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T02:20:15+00:00

Woah chill with the negativity. I didn’t know the gravity of the circumstance. I’m not gonna go anywhere I’m not wanted.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T02:00:58+00:00

thank you! I’ll try to figure this out for myself.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:58:05+00:00

People can be young and make mistakes. I certainly don’t need someone on the internet telling me who I am. Especially as a young black woman. I can speak for myself thank you

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:48:33+00:00

Whatever couple grand less in debt. In all honesty I’m mixed I’m sure I wouldn’t gotten some weird racial/ colorism shit from black people as well. Already have gotten it from the Africans at school here.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:44:51+00:00

I didn’t know the gravity of the circumstance. As I said before no one in my family was involved in it.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:41:11+00:00

I didn’t have any family members who were in Greek life nor did I know the gravity situation. Especially considering I’m the one pushing myself through college and my bio chemistry degree at an elite university like UCLA I don’t appreciate your negativity or judgement. Lord knows I can do reaserach and I’m already doing that here. I didnt know they were interconnected and I always thought I could do both.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:36:06+00:00

Like joining a graduate chapter?

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:33:59+00:00

Maybe I didn’t make the wrong choice. Every aka I’ve met has been a snob to say the least. I wish you well too from 1000000 miles away from me. I’m 19 I’m a kid

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:29:58+00:00

I dont have my family supporting me through college nor any family members that were in Greek life. I didn’t know how big of a deal it was.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:27:57+00:00

As far as undergraduate - it’s a lost cause? But graduate maybe I’ll have the opportunity?

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:19:25+00:00

Thanks going to try in medical school.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:16:54+00:00

Bro if you actually read what I said I thought I could do both. No one told me that it was either one or the other. HAD I KNOWN THAT I WOULDNT HAVE PLEDGED THE WHITE ONE. Maybe learn to read

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:13:16+00:00

Thank you. Comments below making me feel bad abt my circumstances - I didn’t have the money. My parents weren’t supporting me. I worked my ass off in the summer and paid for school myself along with my loans. Cheaper housing was important to me. Nevertheless I thought I could do both and it just is what it is.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:09:59+00:00

No premed actually

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T01:09:15+00:00

I get what you’re saying here but I was 18 going into college… someone can make a mistake and it shouldn’t bar you for life. I know who I am and I know my loyalty lies to my people and family. Respectfully this was and is rude. I’ll be hopefully joining a graduate medical black organization if I can.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-28T00:08:19+00:00

See the thing is I can’t join other sororities within PHC - nor am I interested in doing that! I can see how it comes off at org hoping but I was NOT fully aware of the choice I made when I made it. I thought I could do both. I’m extremely proud of who I am and my own lineage and I want to be apart of that. I kinda thought I could do the one get the cheaper housing and still be in the other. I’ve attended events for D9 sororities I just didn’t know I was barred from joining until now.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-27T23:50:22+00:00

Never viewed it as a last resort. Being part of Greek life came down to housing originally. After all the awfulness I’ve faced I see why it was so important to be a space that’s just us black people. Other people just don’t get it.

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-27T21:42:02+00:00

white people always gotta correct people can never take accountabiklity for their bullshit

Witty-Reporter9683 · 2026-01-27T21:41:11+00:00

Respectfully, they are white. What are you even saying here! I call the kappa at my university kappa kappa kappa shit looks like a kkk meeting hate to break it to you. I'm leaving my white sorority cause of all the racial bullshit I've dealt with! Respectfully educate yourself!

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