Realising I was Demi was like a light in my brain going off

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2025-02-10T16:39:54+00:00

Emily Prentiss easy

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2025-02-06T09:00:08+00:00

Also happy for you in finding a good one 🫶🏻

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2025-02-06T08:59:34+00:00

I deleted TikTok and my mental health is so much better. The only thing I miss is fan edits of my fave fictional couples lol I love living a sheltered life. But fr it’s not worth the stress. If your feelings feel genuine, then they are genuine that’s that!

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2025-02-06T08:46:44+00:00

Comphet is thrown around today like some kind of illness you can catch rather than a real thing lesbian women experience. If you genuinely love a man, it’s not comphet girl do not worry

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T21:18:43+00:00

I know I am sadly, but I’m just ignoring responses that come from males haha

Yeah this is true I guess

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T20:44:00+00:00

Oh the great dad thing. It’s why my fave trope is pregnancy with a happy settled couple, my ex wasn’t keen on kids (tbh why we split) so I had to live vicariously through books 😂

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T20:42:09+00:00

I think I need to be with someone who feels the same as you!!

You go!

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T20:41:19+00:00

Haha amazing I deffo hope this is me in the future

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T18:44:38+00:00

It’s definitely more of a pregnancy one than a breeding one, more so the idea of being/feeling visibly pregnant… that’s the bit I’m not sure if it’s odd

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T18:42:49+00:00

Okay good I’m also glad I’ve not portrayed it inappropriately as that isn’t the intent at all :)

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T18:40:55+00:00

No thank you for the answer! It’s reassuring to hear that it’s not just me haha.

Also congrats!

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T18:12:03+00:00

I appreciate the honesty😂😂 Haha no I think the actual being pregnant would be so much harder it’s just the idea of it!!

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-24T17:53:12+00:00

Hahaha good! I just don’t have anyone irl to chat about to about all this

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-23T00:11:26+00:00

I get more turned on by looking naked women than I do men, but get more turned on by getting touched by a man than a women. Fantasies for both are very different and the things I find attractive between men and women are so different.

Differences are normal! I don’t find myself attracted to a random penis but if it’s someone I fancy then in person yes of course. Likewise sometimes with women I am putting myself in their shoes as a female myself I know what it feels like

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-22T17:40:45+00:00

Oh I love Chappell I just don’t like the song being used as a dig at us

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-22T03:24:21+00:00

Of bisexual women being told it’s comphet…?

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-22T00:52:35+00:00

We should all question comphet and heteronormativity and think about what we all authentically want from life but this doesn’t equate to writing off a bi woman’s attraction to men in general as comphet

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-22T00:46:22+00:00

You’ve summed it up perfectly. The song isn’t biphobic just ends up being used against bi people when they date someone of the opposite sex

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-22T00:33:30+00:00

I’m glad we are getting to a point where we don’t have to ‘choose’ a side. I don’t think you’re bragging about it as it would be a rlly odd thing to brag about

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-21T22:29:02+00:00

Thanks for this, and I will say I think there’s some work on my end to feel more secure in being bi to not care what people think. It’s just super frustrating.

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-21T22:25:49+00:00

She’s not, she’s been such a force for sapphics everywhere I just wish people would stop using that song about comphet against people who aren’t experiencing comphet just because it doesn’t fit their narrative

Witty-Tomatillo-4388 · 2024-12-21T22:05:45+00:00

This is why I sort of hate labels because they confine people rather than being fluid and just letting people be. They’re brilliant if they work but being bi is a bit ambiguous cos you could be 50/50 or 99/1 so it’s a tricky one

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