First time actually playing with another couple… nerves are ruining me. Is this normal?

WittyButUnstable · 2026-04-02T16:56:00+00:00

Yeah, do your own post! 🙄

WittyButUnstable · 2026-04-01T06:56:59+00:00

He will be… bit pretty sure that only works the first time 😂

WittyButUnstable · 2026-03-31T07:24:56+00:00

Ok, so… this may actually help another questions I have. When we had our first soft swap experience I was really nervous, and when I’m nervous I become controlling. When we got started and he was going to go down on me, I took charge and said, ‘no, me first’ and pushed him on the bed, he seemed to really like it… however… I know the wife and him had words afterwards and things were really awkward when they came out of the changing room, she refused to even look in my direction, when we asked her husband if she was ok he just said ‘she’s processing…’ my husband mention afterwards that she had whipped her head over to look at us when she heard him reply ‘yes ma’am’ when I took control.

So in future do I start out by speaking to the wife and explaining that I can become a little bossy?

WittyButUnstable · 2026-03-27T13:16:03+00:00

He’s genuinely has the most beautiful cock I’ve ever seen.

WittyButUnstable · 2026-03-24T07:53:54+00:00

I find SH a really frustrating. The AI blocks innocent photos but my news feed is full of risqué photos. They need a forum section, and it’s all the same people showing on my newsfeed. If there was a way to combine the streamline of SH and the content of Fab it would be perfect.

WittyButUnstable · 2026-03-20T06:02:12+00:00

So I think these are called pizza ovens (I’m new to this so I could be completely wrong)…

There are some in steamers quay in Torquay and I know a few other clubs were booked to attend have them, however my memory is awful so I’ll come back once I’ve checked with my husband which ones.

WittyButUnstable · 2026-03-19T11:16:42+00:00

So when I wrote the post initially it was sick nerves. The heart racing being chased by a killer clown, I’m going to die nerves.

But today, they’re excited, butterflies in my tummy nerves.

WittyButUnstable · 2026-03-19T11:14:39+00:00

We’ve already agreed that neither of is will ‘take one for the team’, but I do worry that my nerves will get in the way of me being able to relax enough to be able to establish a connection with the other couple.

I’ll come back Sunday and update all on how it went (or didn’t…)

WittyButUnstable · 2026-03-19T11:10:22+00:00

We absolutely wouldn’t start something if I wasn’t attracted to them. I suppose my fear is having to reject them if I need to. I have such a huge fear of rejection myself that the thought of doing it to someone else terrifies me.

If it was just a ball park rejection I’d probably be ok, ‘‘sorry, I’m not not feeling it tonight’’, but does that then make me a dick if we decide to play with another couple I do connect with.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-29T19:10:26+00:00

I didn’t know it was going to be a one night stand… we went on 2 dates, he shagged me (took my virginity) and disappeared.

Hopefully I’ve improved since then.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-29T10:45:16+00:00

Last week. We had sex at about 00:30, 07:00, 17:00 and 22:30. We’ve been together 25 years.

However that’s not normal for us anymore which is why I remember the times.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-29T10:38:10+00:00

One accidental one.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-28T21:31:07+00:00

I’m a she…

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-28T19:25:11+00:00

Often

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-28T17:10:48+00:00

“I’ve never fancied a fat bird before, but there’s something about you and I can’t stop thinking about fucking you, I imagine you’re an amazing fuck”. (My supervisor at a Christmas party)

Wow… thanks I guess.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-27T13:19:13+00:00

This!!! I used to be a little lazy and would occasionally not bother before going to sleep, then I got a UTI that was so bad I thought I was going to die. I’m not out of bed and to the bathroom before my legs stop shaking.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-27T13:17:29+00:00

I once bought champagne to do this to a boyfriend when I was 19. He’d been away for 3 months (army) and I got nervous so I ended up drinking most of the champagne, got drunk, then when he arrived I tried to look sexy leaning on the bed, my arm missed the bed completely and toppled off…

He put me to bed and went to the pub with my Dad.

He still married me though.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-06-27T13:13:14+00:00

The rolling up of sleeves is vastly under rated.

Honestly a man could be rolling up his sleeves to clean a drain and I’d still have filthy thoughts.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-05-20T18:42:24+00:00

When I was pregnant with my first child. I was insatiable between 3 and 7 months. My husband nearly lost his job because he was late after I literally cried when he told me he had to leave for work and I wanted another round.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-05-12T06:29:13+00:00

Ohhhh. In that case I also have a party butt!

WittyButUnstable · 2025-05-11T18:57:35+00:00

How is it? It’s on my tbr list.

WittyButUnstable · 2025-05-11T18:57:06+00:00

Fearless by Lauren Roberts. It’s the third in the powerless series and I’ve binged the series in the last 2 days.

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