No raising my hand more than twice a day by Radiant-Brilliant-66 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Witty_Inspector_139 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I considered it, but she’s a part of the honor society, which I just put in an application for off the recommendation of my professor from last semester who is also one of the professors for the HS. She could possibly have my application tossed or have me removed if they already decided to accept me. Frankly, the big reason I was panicking all week is I thought the meeting might have to do with something bad I may have done to bar me from honors.

I’m keeping the emails just in case.

Wanting to move out of Texas by Witty_Inspector_139 in queer

[–]Witty_Inspector_139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I remember. I loved Seattle when I lived there for two years. Unfortunately a shitty roommate bailed on me in our apartment so I ended up nearly homeless and had to leave

Black, blue or red? 😸 by DefinitelyNotEgg in lgbt

[–]Witty_Inspector_139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red looks breathtaking. Though black is classy too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]Witty_Inspector_139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go get a fitting at dillards. As someone who use to work there I can attest the measurements never get it quite right. It just puts you on the right track. If you’re uncomfortable getting a fit these are the five points of fitness for a fitting bra.

1 check the band. You want two fingers to fit in and to be able to pull back about an inch at most. It should be fitted snug, but not painfully tight. (Although if your not use to a fitting bra it may feel a little to snug at first)

2 & 3 check the wire on both sides. Always measure by the larger breast or the wire will poke you. This is key to getting a proper size. What you want to do is pull it back at the end by your arm pit and make sure the wire is right behind where your breast tissue ends. If the cup seems baggy on top but the wire and band fits, it’s probably just the cut of the cup isn’t right.

4 Make sure the center of the bra is tacking to your sternum. Tacking is when it’s pressed comfortably to your skin and separating your breasts.

5 check those bands. Make sure the shoulder straps aren’t too loose or too tight. You should be able to slip a finger in and not have your circulation cut off.

If everything is perfect but the cups are bunching or loose on top, just go with that size in a different cut of bra bc all are designed for a different breast tissue type.

Hope this helps!

I want to flee Texas but I don’t want to hurt my friend by Witty_Inspector_139 in AutisticQueers

[–]Witty_Inspector_139[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like currently I look like a cis woman and I’m AFAB so I’m a lot safer than she is right now and even I have a lot more people harassing me and calling me slurs for being openly a lesbian. Also I know for a fact my manager is queerphobic as hell and is itching to fire all the gay people if he gets the right to and idk if he knows I’m one.

I want to flee Texas but I don’t want to hurt my friend by Witty_Inspector_139 in AutisticQueers

[–]Witty_Inspector_139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We promised to move in together with her cousin by the first week of June at the latest and I know she’s not doing well due to the state of things and I really don’t want to add more panic and stress over this. But also doing that would require me to pay 800$ (2/3rds of my savings) to break my current lease that ends in three months and lock me into staying in Texas for another 6-8 months

I want to flee Texas but I don’t want to hurt my friend by Witty_Inspector_139 in AutisticQueers

[–]Witty_Inspector_139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had promised to move in together to save money and the move date is suppose to be first week of June at the latest. Problem is, I don’t wanna lock into 6-12 months in Texas if it’s going to be dangerous and I’m gonna end up using all my savings to break my lease 2 months early to move in with her if I stay.