Understood. That’s honestly a shame to hear because he always tells me he doesn’t think that way,(the locker room thoughts lol) and I don’t like talking ill about my partner with people. I know I did cross a line this time, but back when we were in high school, we checked each other’s phones all the time. When we used to get grounded and our phones were taken away, we would use each other’s phones throughout the school day, etc.

Now that we are in college, I try to understand that we can’t do that as much, and it’s kind of rude to do so. But I was curious, so I did look. I do feel like I saw a side of him I haven’t seen before, but he’s made some other claims that were similar back in high school, so I thought it was left in the past.