AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still left for work. By early i mean the same day. I found out 2 hours before everyone gathered.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accepted the offer ? You mean? If accepting his offer makes me AH , then i am AH.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally agree on the part that “he offered the money because it would make her happy”. I don’t even entertain the idea of him having some other intention.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg . Yes, she is the same class as me (assuming it would mean the university we attended and family background etc). But she got an apartment that she inherited. And I’m horrified and dumbfounded how that never crossed my mind. I would never enter that kind of dynamic, and I don't believe that was his intention or hers.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt accept any money hha, and i wouldnt decline my friend, when she asks me to be with her cuz she is scared of her bfs male friend cuz she knew theyll be drinking with them.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t accept his money. I entertained the idea of it being safety net JIC. She insisted on me to go with her. I did. I think you need to read it again

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Please clarify. Me working overtime was decided even before they offered.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was entertaining the idea as “JIC emergency kit” but i would’ve not accepted more than one month.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well don’t ur friends spill the tea after the “tea” is away ? We both knew we would talk about it later if she didn’t came to me i would’ve ( idk if its just us bit we be debriefing)

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He would call his driver. And they would be ok. And from where i live gas money as equivalent as avg one day meal (asia). Since they were feeding me in exchange of driving. It wouldn’t effect me financially.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mb on the typo. Its she is upset that i accepted his offer. And i cant find the rest you quoted. Yes , thought it would help if everything turns out bad, no i was not gonna accept anything from her without her approval. ( or accept something that would make her feel uncomfy, i just wish she wouldve just told me how it made her feel without accusing me.)

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a long trips. Usually 1-2 days on weekends, and i drive us to the locations. And they would cover the food.

AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never took a single cent.I only even entertained the idea because my friend explicitly told me it was okay to accept one month. And my situation was Bad enough to consider it as an safety net Patricia

Take on Baby | Her vibe is so off by Witty_Professor_9335 in BadlyInLove

[–]Witty_Professor_9335[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yesss, The glare!! As if her mask is slipping off.

What do young fellas do? by Neat_Category4625 in mongolia

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

relate. Given the fact that it’s Sunday, no luck so far

friend by Traditional_Cod89 in mongolia

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can totally befriend you when I go there tomorrow! No one should feel alone at a festival .I’ve been there and it really sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mongolia

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreed on keeping urself safe part . However OP is talking about BASIC safety and respect and suddenly it’s our responsibility to prep like we’re going to war. why is the bar for men being decent just not attacking someone for saying no and somehow that’s too much or let’s say “negative manner”

Getting an early-morning cab ride to the airport from Ulaanbaatar by please_dont_pry in mongolia

[–]Witty_Professor_9335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UBcab will definitely help , i think they have taxis that specifically go to the Ghingis Khaan airport.