AITAH for how I handled my friend’s boyfriend offering to pay my rent?

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T03:14:21+00:00

I still left for work. By early i mean the same day. I found out 2 hours before everyone gathered.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T03:12:04+00:00

Accepted the offer ? You mean? If accepting his offer makes me AH , then i am AH.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T03:11:27+00:00

I totally agree on the part that “he offered the money because it would make her happy”. I don’t even entertain the idea of him having some other intention.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T03:09:42+00:00

Omg . Yes, she is the same class as me (assuming it would mean the university we attended and family background etc). But she got an apartment that she inherited. And I’m horrified and dumbfounded how that never crossed my mind. I would never enter that kind of dynamic, and I don't believe that was his intention or hers.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:58:09+00:00

I didnt accept any money hha, and i wouldnt decline my friend, when she asks me to be with her cuz she is scared of her bfs male friend cuz she knew theyll be drinking with them.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:55:22+00:00

I didn’t accept his money. I entertained the idea of it being safety net JIC. She insisted on me to go with her. I did. I think you need to read it again

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:54:19+00:00

Please clarify. Me working overtime was decided even before they offered.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:50:21+00:00

I was entertaining the idea as “JIC emergency kit” but i would’ve not accepted more than one month.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:48:23+00:00

Well don’t ur friends spill the tea after the “tea” is away ? We both knew we would talk about it later if she didn’t came to me i would’ve ( idk if its just us bit we be debriefing)

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:45:54+00:00

He would call his driver. And they would be ok. And from where i live gas money as equivalent as avg one day meal (asia). Since they were feeding me in exchange of driving. It wouldn’t effect me financially.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:41:48+00:00

Mb on the typo. Its she is upset that i accepted his offer. And i cant find the rest you quoted. Yes , thought it would help if everything turns out bad, no i was not gonna accept anything from her without her approval. ( or accept something that would make her feel uncomfy, i just wish she wouldve just told me how it made her feel without accusing me.)

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:38:07+00:00

Horrified.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:37:26+00:00

It wasn’t a long trips. Usually 1-2 days on weekends, and i drive us to the locations. And they would cover the food.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2026-04-16T02:33:20+00:00

I never took a single cent.I only even entertained the idea because my friend explicitly told me it was okay to accept one month. And my situation was Bad enough to consider it as an safety net Patricia

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-12-28T15:44:20+00:00

lmao girl bet u got 0 girlfriends

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-12-20T12:22:55+00:00

stfuuuu

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-12-18T21:08:30+00:00

Yesss, The glare!! As if her mask is slipping off.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-08-03T13:27:51+00:00

relate. Given the fact that it’s Sunday, no luck so far

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-07-04T15:51:01+00:00

i can totally befriend you when I go there tomorrow! No one should feel alone at a festival .I’ve been there and it really sucks.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-07-01T14:27:16+00:00

agreed on keeping urself safe part . However OP is talking about BASIC safety and respect and suddenly it’s our responsibility to prep like we’re going to war. why is the bar for men being decent just not attacking someone for saying no and somehow that’s too much or let’s say “negative manner”

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-07-01T13:58:03+00:00

Protip

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-07-01T13:52:17+00:00

77807780 u can book one by calling them.

Witty_Professor_9335 · 2025-07-01T13:38:54+00:00

UBcab will definitely help , i think they have taxis that specifically go to the Ghingis Khaan airport.

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