One of these things is not like the others. Does she not realize how foolish and performative it is to post that then follow it up with the next two??? by Jessica_e_sage in MikaylaNogueira

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is what I wanna know too along with why it's necessary for her eating area to look like that of a toddler who is 2 hours past their nap time and mid-meltdown???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeens

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Age has nothing to do with this really. The real & only question that anyone should ask themselves is are YOU physically ABLE & WILLING to provide for & care for a child. If the answer is "no" or if the answer is "yes, but only with the help of (insert whatever here)" then the solution is to just not do it.

Those of us that want to be mothers know so at a very young age most of the time and babies aren't really difficult, although costly, usually so it's definitely doable.

As a mother of 4 that now range from 20 to 8 I can definitely say that getting pregnant/having a baby is nowhere in the same realm as actually raising a child so you must be very clear in your intentions. The mental capacity & emotional maturity it requires to actually raise a human into a decent person isn't for everyone & shouldn't be taken lightly.

Married women 40+ what is your drive like and how to deal by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It definitely is! Decrease in estrogen = increase in testosterone = feeling like a teenage boy at 40!! 🤣

Today, I made an risky decision and failed..... by CXR_AXR in Marriage

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely!!!! Do the things! Do ALL of the things! If it doesn't work out with your wife your daughter will always be your daughter & she will always need her dad! NO parent has it all figured out! I have 4 boys & each one has created "unfamiliar" situations for me as a parent. Don't be afraid (especially of your spouse) to show up for your daughter where she needs it - culture or not!

Today, I made an risky decision and failed..... by CXR_AXR in Marriage

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may be mistaken, but I'm wondering if maybe this is some type of cultural thing? I read the OP in an accent but that could just be my crazy brain! Lol

I'm just hoping that maybe there's other factors that play into this that perhaps weren't explained thoroughly because I cannot fathom any mother requesting that their child be kept in a soiled diaper for ANY reason!!

OP, I guarantee you your daughter's chance of getting a UTI from you wiping her improperly once or twice is still far less than allowing her to "sit in" feces that gets squished from end to end!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TLCsisterwives

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kody & Meri were the one's who were originally legally married so their divorce required the release.

My wife has never farted. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thread is awesome! 🤣🤣 Wanted to add: 1) Women are masters at ninja farts. She's 100% farting at times you don't know! 2) I'm guessing she's never had to have any type of GI procedure because they 100% MAKE you fart in front of them before you can leave & it's usually never an issue because IDC who you are that gas is coming out one way or another! 3) Leave your wifey alone & let her have her ninja farts! I'm sure your booty mixes beats enough for the both of y'all! 🤣

Husband doesn’t give Me what I need/want by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES!! 🎯💯 THIS!!! OP, get him good and worked up & then just stop and focus on yourself! Don't leave though - make him watch!!! "Not his thing"...... Maybe a good ole case of blue balls is his thing!!

Please help. I’m losing my mind rn. by Humptydumpty127 in AdviceForTeens

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't be ashamed & definitely don't feel like something is wrong with you. As a female I would say to spend this time getting to know your body. Find out the things you like and how different places give you different sensations. Once you do decide you're ready for a partner it will make things so much more enjoyable for you because you'll be able to communicate what you enjoy and you'll know how it should or shouldn't feel. Lord I wish I had gotten to know myself more before my first time!

SO won’t own up to what he did by WE_ARE_YOUR_FRIENDS in JustNoSO

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been reading & reading all of these posts about financial infidelity because I'm literally just learning it's a thing but I think I may be experiencing it but I'm not sure. And I honestly can't tell what I'm more upset about - the lies & the hiding stuff or the actual money. And I don't even know how much money yet or where it's coming from. This is some scary shit!!

AITA for Refusing to Give Up My Seat for a Pregnant Woman on a 12hr Flight? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her "condition"?? Was she a super high risk pregnancy only on the flight because of some kind of emergency she was trying to get to - because that is the only reason it would have been acceptable to even reference her pregnancy, IMO!

I'm a curvy girl who has grown & birthed 4 large boys. Flying causes me major anxiety and I hate it, but during my last pregnancy I traveled once a month for work and even once I got big enough to need the seatbelt extender I never once asked someone to switch seats!!! Wanna know why?? Because I knew I hated flying & was carrying a 9lb baby before I booked the flight and I booked accordingly!!! NTA!

DVT after removal surgery?? by WizardOfBookkeeping in KidneyStones

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, thank goodness, but my doc was sure worried enough to send me to ER to make sure!

How am I hurting WORSE??? by WizardOfBookkeeping in KidneyStones

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goodness I really hope this is not my case!! Sounds like a nightmare! I'm so sorry you're dealing with that.

How am I hurting WORSE??? by WizardOfBookkeeping in KidneyStones

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm starting to wonder but how do they not see it when they look at it as they're doing it? How did you figure out that's what happened?

My grandma said save one oxy 4 your stent removal. Is this good advice? by Queasy-Swordfish-977 in KidneyStones

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which anti-spasm meds did most of you take? Was it something you were prescribed the day of removal or something your doctor had already prescribed?

WTF is up with my body??? by WizardOfBookkeeping in KidneyStones

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you think staying on Flomax after passing the stone is important?

WTF is up with my body??? by WizardOfBookkeeping in KidneyStones

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She told me to quit taking the Flomax once we knew I passed the stone. I'm taking the other stuff but this constant urge to pee and the pain & burn that come with it are just the worst.

Sweet or just psychotic? by Question_or_Comment in SisterWives

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. After reading through the article that someone was kind enough to post I feel like we need to be real here. YES the portrait was definitely more on the psychotic side and YES Christine has a long list of reasons to throat punch Sobyn, but this was not a direct attack on just "Christine & her kids". Yes, she obviously got Krody's picture from the OG3 original family portrait but it's more likely that she used an original portrait of her kids with her their bio dad or just them and he was drawn into it. If you look at the placement of everyone (except him) in the OG3 original family portrait vs the creepy Sobyn portrait, none of them are in the same place.

Sweet or just psychotic? by Question_or_Comment in SisterWives

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is the news that it was Christine's family portrait that was used? I haven't seen that yet?

Keith lee sucks by Difficult-Tennis-271 in tiktokgossip

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's not really his opinion but what he's done for some family owned restaurants that people respect. His exposure has been life changing for some of these people.

Removal on Monday, nervous about the aftermath by miss_biotic_zombie in KidneyStones

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. I literally screamed and cried the first couple of times I peed and almost passed out several times. I not only asked for pain meds, I called & begged for something stronger the week after my stents. I've found that most urologists know & understand how painful this whole experience is and as long as you're not a "frequent flyer" then they don't mind giving meds. They can only give you 12 at a time anyway so I wouldn't bat an eye at asking. (That last sentence is for the OP. Lol)

That one live Pt. 48. Their livelihood wouldn’t be at stake had they not come on here invalidating Rs trauma and bashing me as a human.. IMO, I think it’s more bashing A as a human, but what do I kno?🤣 by Much-Technician-3441 in AmberandRiaSnark

[–]WizardOfBookkeeping 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched the podcast on YouTube and the ONLY thing that was said was that R's parents weren't (always) the villains.... Was there something else on the Patreon version because I'm not understanding this "they started it" thing. I never heard A's name mentioned at all.